Girls & Women: What's Your Ideal Date?
This poll is for females only. Are you female?
| 100% (11) | Yes, I am female |
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11 voters have answered this question.
Your age?
| 0% (0) | <13 | |
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| 18% (2) | 13 | |
| 0% (0) | 14 | |
| 18% (2) | 15 | |
| 18% (2) | 16 | |
| 0% (0) | 17 | |
| 9% (1) | 18 | |
| 9% (1) | 19 | |
| 0% (0) | 20 | |
| 0% (0) | 21 | |
| 0% (0) | 22 | |
| 18% (2) | 23 | |
| 0% (0) | 24 | |
| 0% (0) | 25 | |
| 0% (0) | 26 | |
| 9% (1) | 27 | |
| 0% (0) | 28 | |
| 0% (0) | 29 | |
| 0% (0) | 30-34 | |
| 0% (0) | 35-39 | |
| 0% (0) | 40+ |
11 voters have answered this question.
What's your religion?
| 54% (6) | Christianity (Catholic, Protestant, Orthodox, etc) | |
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| 0% (0) | Judaism | |
| 0% (0) | Islam | |
| 0% (0) | Hinduism | |
| 0% (0) | Buddhism | |
| 36% (4) | Atheist/Agnostic/No religion | |
| 9% (1) | Other |
11 voters have answered this question.
Where do you currently live?
| 0% (0) | Africa | |
|---|---|---|
| 0% (0) | Asia | |
| 0% (0) | Australia | |
| 0% (0) | United Kingdom | |
| 81% (9) | North America | |
| 0% (0) | South America | |
| 18% (2) | Other |
11 voters have answered this question.
What's your relationship status?
| 45% (5) | Single, never married | |
|---|---|---|
| 45% (5) | Have a boyfriend | |
| 0% (0) | Engaged to be married | |
| 9% (1) | Married | |
| 0% (0) | Divorced | |
| 0% (0) | Widowed |
11 voters have answered this question.
Would you prefer to ask a guy on a date or be asked out on a date?
| 9% (1) | I ask him out | |
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| 72% (8) | He asks me out | |
| 18% (2) | No preference |
11 voters have answered this question.
Which of these would you like to hear the most when a guy is asking you out on a date?
| 27% (3) | "I really like you. Would you like to go out with me?" | |
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| 27% (3) | "I think you're really beautiful. Would you like to go on a date?" | |
| 0% (0) | "I think we get along really well together. Should we go out on a date sometime?" | |
| 9% (1) | "Would you like to go out and eat or do something fun later?" | |
| 0% (0) | "Hey, I'm going out later tonight. Want to come with me?" | |
| 27% (3) | "Would you like to hang out later tonight?" | |
| 9% (1) | "I know this cool place nearby. Want to go there with me sometime?" | |
| 0% (0) | "Hey, could I get your number? I'd like to call you later." | |
| 0% (0) | "Hey, could I get your number? I'd like to text you later." | |
| 0% (0) | None of the above (why not?) |
11 voters have answered this question.
How would you like to meet for the date?
| 63% (7) | He comes to your home and picks you up | |
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| 0% (0) | You go to his home and pick him up | |
| 36% (4) | You both meet up at the location of the date |
11 voters have answered this question.
What would be your preferred location or activity for the date?
| 27% (3) | Fancy restaurant | |
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| 9% (1) | Casual restaurant | |
| 0% (0) | Cafe/Coffee shop | |
| 0% (0) | Movie theater | |
| 0% (0) | Miniature golf | |
| 0% (0) | Amusement Park | |
| 0% (0) | Zoo or Aquarium | |
| 0% (0) | Fair or Festival | |
| 0% (0) | Ice skating | |
| 0% (0) | Concert | |
| 0% (0) | Museum | |
| 0% (0) | Beach | |
| 9% (1) | Mall | |
| 0% (0) | Sports game | |
| 9% (1) | Arcade | |
| 18% (2) | Bar or Club | |
| 0% (0) | Go for a walk | |
| 9% (1) | Hiking trail | |
| 0% (0) | Picnic at a park | |
| 9% (1) | Stay at home and make food | |
| 9% (1) | Other |
11 voters have answered this question.
And what would be your second preferred location or activity for the date?
| 0% (0) | Fancy restaurant | |
|---|---|---|
| 27% (3) | Casual restaurant | |
| 9% (1) | Cafe/Coffee shop | |
| 0% (0) | Movie theater | |
| 9% (1) | Miniature golf | |
| 0% (0) | Amusement Park | |
| 9% (1) | Zoo or Aquarium | |
| 0% (0) | Fair or Festival | |
| 0% (0) | Ice skating | |
| 9% (1) | Concert | |
| 0% (0) | Museum | |
| 0% (0) | Beach | |
| 0% (0) | Mall | |
| 0% (0) | Sports game | |
| 0% (0) | Arcade | |
| 9% (1) | Bar or Club | |
| 9% (1) | Go for a walk | |
| 0% (0) | Hiking trail | |
| 9% (1) | Picnic at a park | |
| 0% (0) | Stay at home and make food | |
| 9% (1) | Other |
11 voters have answered this question.
What would you like to wear for the date? Choose 1 top, 1 bottom, and 1 footwear.
| 54% (6) | Fancy blouse | |
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| 9% (1) | Casual blouse | |
| 0% (0) | Long-sleeve shirt | |
| 0% (0) | T-shirt (tight) | |
| 0% (0) | T-shirt (loose) | |
| 0% (0) | Tanktop/Sleeveless shirt (tight) | |
| 9% (1) | Tanktop/Sleeveless shirt (loose) | |
| 9% (1) | Croptop | |
| 9% (1) | Sweater | |
| 9% (1) | Other top | |
| 9% (1) | Long pants | |
| 0% (0) | Jeans | |
| 0% (0) | Shorts (normal) | |
| 0% (0) | Shorts (small) | |
| 9% (1) | Skirt (knee-length) | |
| 27% (3) | Skirt (mid-thigh length) | |
| 45% (5) | Skirt (mini or shorter length) | |
| 9% (1) | Leggings or yoga pants | |
| 0% (0) | Other bottom | |
| 18% (2) | Heels (high, closed toe) | |
| 36% (4) | Heels (high, open toe) | |
| 0% (0) | Heels (average, closed toe) | |
| 9% (1) | Heels (average, open toe) | |
| 0% (0) | Long boots | |
| 9% (1) | Short boots | |
| 0% (0) | Sandals (closed toe) | |
| 9% (1) | Sandals (open toe) | |
| 18% (2) | Sneakers | |
| 0% (0) | Crocs | |
| 0% (0) | Other footwear |
11 voters have answered this question.
What would you like the guy to wear for the date? Choose 1 top, 1 bottom, and 1 footwear.
| 0% (0) | Dress shirt + suit jacket | |
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| 45% (5) | Dress shirt | |
| 9% (1) | Polo shirt | |
| 9% (1) | Shirt + jacket | |
| 9% (1) | T-shirt (tight) | |
| 27% (3) | T-shirt (loose) | |
| 0% (0) | Tanktop/Sleeveless shirt (tight) | |
| 0% (0) | Tanktop/Sleeveless shirt (loose) | |
| 0% (0) | Sweater | |
| 0% (0) | Other top | |
| 36% (4) | Dress/suit pants | |
| 45% (5) | Long pants | |
| 36% (4) | Jeans | |
| 0% (0) | Shorts (normal) | |
| 0% (0) | Shorts (small) | |
| 0% (0) | Shorts (cargo) | |
| 0% (0) | Shorts (board or thin athletic) | |
| 0% (0) | Other bottom | |
| 54% (6) | Dress shoes | |
| 36% (4) | Boots | |
| 36% (4) | Sneakers | |
| 0% (0) | Sandals (closed toe) | |
| 0% (0) | Sandals (open toe) | |
| 0% (0) | Crocs | |
| 0% (0) | Other footwear |
11 voters have answered this question.
Who should pay for the date's activities?
| 63% (7) | He should | |
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| 0% (0) | I should | |
| 18% (2) | We should split the cost | |
| 18% (2) | Whoever asked to go on the date should pay | |
| 0% (0) | We should not go or do anything that requires either of us to pay |
11 voters have answered this question.
Should any topics of conversation be avoided during a first date?
| 27% (3) | Politics | |
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| 27% (3) | Religion | |
| 18% (2) | Finances | |
| 18% (2) | Family | |
| 18% (2) | School or Work | |
| 27% (3) | Intimate/Personal questions | |
| 27% (3) | Physical preferences for the opposite gender | |
| 45% (5) | All of the above topics of conversation should be valid for discussion and okay to mention |
11 voters have answered this question.
Would you like to hold hands during the date?
| 9% (1) | For the entire date | |
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| 9% (1) | For most of the date | |
| 63% (7) | For some of the date | |
| 9% (1) | Once or twice, briefly, during the date | |
| 9% (1) | No |
11 voters have answered this question.
If the date involves sitting down together (restaurant, coffee shop, picnic, etc), would you like to sit side-by-side right next to each other or sit across from each other?
| 36% (4) | Side-by-side | |
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| 45% (5) | Across from each other | |
| 18% (2) | No preference/I would let him decide |
11 voters have answered this question.
Would you like for him to bring you to your home after the date is finished?
| 0% (0) | Yes, he should drop me off outside | |
|---|---|---|
| 72% (8) | Yes, and he should walk me up to my door | |
| 18% (2) | No, we should just separately go to our homes | |
| 9% (1) | No, I should take him back to his home and drop him off | |
| 0% (0) | No, I should take him back to his home and walk him up to his door |
11 voters have answered this question.
Would you like or be okay with any physical affection at the end of the date? Assume this has been your first date together.
| 9% (1) | We can shake hands | |
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| 36% (4) | We can briefly hug | |
| 36% (4) | We can have a close hug | |
| 9% (1) | He can kiss my hand | |
| 0% (0) | He can kiss my cheek | |
| 54% (6) | He can kiss my lips | |
| 0% (0) | I can kiss his hand | |
| 0% (0) | I can kiss his cheek | |
| 36% (4) | I can kiss his lips | |
| 18% (2) | Other |
11 voters have answered this question.
How should a second date be arranged?
| 36% (4) | If he asked me out for the first one, he should also ask me out for the second one | |
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| 9% (1) | If he asked me out for the first one, I should ask him out for the second one | |
| 9% (1) | If I asked him out for the first one, I should also ask him out for the second one | |
| 0% (0) | If I asked him out for the first one, he should ask me out for the second one | |
| 45% (5) | It makes no difference at all and either of us can make the offer for a second date |
11 voters have answered this question.
How many dates would you go on together before you would assume that you are an official couple?
| 0% (0) | 1 | |
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| 9% (1) | 2 | |
| 18% (2) | 3 | |
| 9% (1) | 4 | |
| 0% (0) | 5 | |
| 9% (1) | 6+ | |
| 54% (6) | I would never assume it until we directly confirm it to each other |
11 voters have answered this question.
OPTIONAL: Are you more introverted or extroverted?
| 45% (5) | Introvert | |
|---|---|---|
| 18% (2) | Extrovert | |
| 36% (4) | Not sure |
11 voters have answered this question.
OPTIONAL: How tall are you?
| 0% (0) | <4'8" | |
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| 0% (0) | 4'8" | |
| 9% (1) | 4'9" | |
| 27% (3) | 4'10" | |
| 0% (0) | 4'11" | |
| 9% (1) | 5'0" | |
| 0% (0) | 5'1" | |
| 9% (1) | 5'2" | |
| 36% (4) | 5'3" | |
| 9% (1) | 5'4" | |
| 0% (0) | 5'5" | |
| 0% (0) | 5'6" | |
| 0% (0) | 5'7" | |
| 0% (0) | 5'8" | |
| 0% (0) | 5'9" | |
| 0% (0) | 5'10" | |
| 0% (0) | 5'11" | |
| 0% (0) | 6'0" or taller |
11 voters have answered this question.
OPTIONAL: How tall would you prefer to be in relation to your date's height?
| 54% (6) | I want to be shorter than him | |
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| 27% (3) | I want to be taller than him | |
| 18% (2) | I want us to be about the same height |
11 voters have answered this question.
OPTIONAL: What is your natural hair color?
| 18% (2) | Black | |
|---|---|---|
| 27% (3) | Brown | |
| 0% (0) | Brunette | |
| 36% (4) | Blonde | |
| 18% (2) | Red | |
| 0% (0) | Other |
11 voters have answered this question.
OPTIONAL: Rate your own appearance on a scale of 1 to 10.
| 0% (0) | 10 - I have a perfect appearance | |
|---|---|---|
| 9% (1) | 9 - I am exceptionally beautiful | |
| 27% (3) | 8 - I am very beautiful | |
| 9% (1) | 7 - I am beautiful | |
| 45% (5) | 6 - I am above average | |
| 9% (1) | 5 - I am average | |
| 0% (0) | 4 - I am slightly below average | |
| 0% (0) | 3 - I am unattractive | |
| 0% (0) | 2 - I am very unattractive | |
| 0% (0) | 1 - I am ugly |
11 voters have answered this question.
OPTIONAL: Using the same rating scale, what is the minimum score your date should have for you to want to go out with him?
| 0% (0) | 10 - He has a perfect appearance | |
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| 0% (0) | 9 - He is exceptionally handsome | |
| 0% (0) | 8 - He is very handsome | |
| 18% (2) | 7 - He is handsome | |
| 9% (1) | 6 - He is above average | |
| 36% (4) | 5 - He is average | |
| 18% (2) | 4 - He is slightly below average | |
| 9% (1) | 3 - He is unattractive | |
| 0% (0) | 2 - He is very unattractive | |
| 0% (0) | 1 - He is ugly | |
| 9% (1) | I would not consider his looks at all when deciding whether to go out with him |
11 voters have answered this question.
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