Are you male or female?
59% (497) | Male | |
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40% (344) | Female |
841 voters have answered this question.
Are you currently involved in any form of relationship?
1% (11) | Yes, married | |
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1% (13) | Yes, engaged/seriously involved | |
2% (24) | Yes, casual realtionship | |
4% (35) | Yes, but just dating | |
14% (120) | No, I choose not to be involved | |
76% (646) | No, I have no success and cannot even get a date |
849 voters have answered this question.
How would you best describe your emotional well being?
0% (7) | Unbelievably happy. | |
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1% (9) | Very happy. | |
5% (44) | Happy. | |
26% (225) | Been better, been worse. | |
15% (128) | Unhappy. | |
17% (150) | Very unhappy. | |
23% (196) | Seriously depressed. | |
10% (91) | Suicidal. |
850 voters have answered this question.
Besides yourself, do you think that anyone else cares how you feel?
1% (12) | Of course, I am so loved. | |
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28% (246) | Yes, I know there are people who care about me. | |
27% (234) | Maybe a little. | |
27% (233) | Not really, people mostly care about themselves only. | |
14% (124) | I could die right now and no one would know and no one would care. |
849 voters have answered this question.
Why do you think you are alone? Check all that apply.
30% (251) | Because I come with personal baggage than no one wants. | |
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55% (459) | Because I am physically unattractive. | |
59% (494) | Because I am insecure with myself. | |
60% (507) | Because I am really inexperienced with relationships for my age, and it shows. | |
27% (228) | Because I choose to be alone.. it hurts less. | |
40% (338) | I'm afraid to fall in love because all I've ever known is abandonment and heartache. |
833 voters have answered this question.
Do you love yourself?
5% (49) | Yes, I love myself completely and without question. | |
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20% (175) | Yes, there are things I wish I could change about myself, but all in all, I love who I am. | |
13% (111) | I love myself but not as much as I should. | |
37% (318) | I've been losing faith.. I care for my well being but I do not love myself. | |
12% (104) | I do not love myself and it shows. | |
10% (91) | I hate myself passionately, I wish I was never born. |
848 voters have answered this question.
If you found true love today (call it a soulmate if you believe in soulmates).. how would you best describe it's impact on your lonliness?
34% (290) | That's the one thing I've always wanted; I'd be completely fulfilled. | |
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29% (248) | I'd feel very lucky and happy and a lot less lonely. | |
7% (62) | Having someone really special makes me feel less alone. | |
13% (115) | At first I'd feel really happy, but sooner or later s/he will leave me. | |
15% (131) | It wouldn't even happen because no one can love me or desire me or even acknowledge me. |
846 voters have answered this question.
Are you afraid to die alone?
1% (10) | I'll never die alone, I am soooo loved. | |
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9% (77) | I know that I never have to be alone if I don't want to. | |
36% (311) | Occasionally I worry about dying alone, but that can't stop me from living my life the way I should. | |
27% (231) | I worry about it a lot, when I die, I want to be in someone's heart forever. | |
25% (213) | I am deathly afraid to die alone.. have even thought about suicide to end the feelings of lonliness. |
842 voters have answered this question.
Do you feel you can change things so you're not so lonely?
4% (39) | Definitely, I know exactly what I have to do. | |
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18% (155) | I know if I put my emotions in check and accept certain things, I won't have to be alone again. | |
35% (297) | The things I can't change are the things that mean the most to me. | |
41% (350) | It's so hard to keep going on... feel like I'm alive but I'm not living. |
841 voters have answered this question.
Ladies only please: if you could share your honest thoughts about this, it would help me out a lot. See, I don't have a lot of experience with approaching women. I'm genuinely interested in meeting a good woman for a relationship, casual at first.. I'll go further if things feel right between us (so I'm not out for just a cheap thrill). If I see someone I find attractive, what is the best way I can approach her.. (the middle, conversation part I'm good with).. and get her to want to give me her number? I know there are lots of nice women out there, I just don't know how to keep her attention.. lol. Please post a message here or send me one at IRNWLF4525@aol.com. Thanx! =)
0 voters have answered this question.