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Should I let her go

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Ok my girlfriend has this friend which I know for a fact that he likes her, and this would be the 2nd or 3rd time he asked her out ever since me and her have gone out. My girlfriend thinks I'm paranoid and only sees the guy as a friend, while he wants to be more then a friend. What I'm asking is if I am right to say that he has a crush on her or should I take her words and despite all the clear evidence, trust her that this guy has no interests in her that is more then a friend. And What do you think she should have done? What she did was went home and asked if she can go even though she knows my answer would be NO, but wouldn't the best choice would be for HER to tell the guy NO right on the spot? However I am not too disappointed in her decision to ask me first, and I am thankful of her for asking me first. All opinions are welcomed =)
Was my decision to not let her to with this guy, (that I know for sure likes her even though she thinks of him as only a friend) fair ?
Yes!!, you did the typical thing any B/F would do
Hmm, I agree with your decision, since you trust her but don't trust him.
Umm, if he really is her friend then he should know better to not ask her out.
No, you should take her word when she said that guy does not have a crush on her.
Nope, you have to be more fair, let her do whatever she wants, and then think about the consquences
This poll was created on 2003-06-17 00:52:58 by viggavp