Cheating On Your Husband

Have you ever had an affair?

Yes

No

Has your affair been limited to a single person or have you had multiple partners?

Just one person

Multiple people

How did you meet your lover?

Does your husband know of the affair?

No

Yes

If you answered "No" to the above question, are you planning on telling him in the future?

No

Yes

If you answered "Yes" to question 4, does the affair turn him on or did he get upset?

He was turned on and is letting me continue the affair

He was turned on but wants me to end it

He was upset but we are working things out

He was upset and we are thinking of separating or are currently separated

What is the reason for your affair?

I'm an extremely sexual person

I'm happy with my husband but looking for something new and exciting

I'm unhappy with my husband

Assuming your husband does not know of your affair, where do you tell him you are going?

Working late

Out with the girls

Going to the gym

Short business trip

Other

Do you think it is normal to have sex with only your spouse your entire marriage?

It is not normal but I can't help myself

Having sex with just your spouse is a cultural and social constraint and is not normal

Do you feel any guilt when you are out with your lover?

No, none at all

Yes, a little

A lot of guilt but I still do it

Have you ever run into someone you know while out with your lover?

No

Yes

If you answered "yes" to the above question, how did you handle the situation?

I just introduced him as a friend and was casual enough that the person didn't suspect anything

I introduced him as a friend but I was very nervous - I think the person was suspicious

I just said "Hello" quickly and didn't even introduce him. It was awkward.

I just pretended I didn't recognize or see them and left as quickly as I could

When you go out with your lover, how important is it to engage in some type of sexual play?

Very important - we do it every time we meet

Important but we sometimes just go out socially and don't do anything sexually

When we go out, sex is not a requirement - if it happens, fine - if not, that is fine too.

If your husband knows of your affair and has allowed you to continue it, do you have a desire for your husband to meet him?

God no! Are you crazy!!

I've thought about it but I think things will work better if the affair is semi-private

Yes, I'd love for them to meet but either my spouse or my lover is reluctant

If your husband knows of your affair and has allowed you to continue it, does he want to know details of what you did when you went out?

Yes, he questions me about every detail

He seems interested but is guarded in what he asks

He prefers the affair to be private

When you engage in intercourse with your lover, what form of contraception do you use?

Rhythm method only

Condom

Diaphragm

Combination of the above

For women that prefer multiple affairs, how long does it take before you start to lose interest in your lover and seek a new one?

1-3 months

3-6 months

6-12 months

Over 1 year

If your husband does not know of your affair, do you wish you could tell him?

Yes, it would be so much easier if he knew (and was ok with it)

No, it's better that he doesn't know

In your opinion, what percentage of women try an extramarital affair at least once during their marriage?

10% or lower

Between 10 and 25%

Between 26 and 50%

Between 51% and 75%

Over 75%

If your husband allows your affair, does he enjoy watching you get ready for your date (e.g., getting dressed, applying lipstick, etc.)

Yes, it turns him on

He seems neutral about it

If your husband allows your affair, have you ever had your lover pick you up at your house?

Yes, but my husband did not come out to meet him

Yes, and my husband saw him but stayed out of sight

Yes, but my husband makes sure he is out somewhere

No, I would never have him pick me up at home!