Which would you prefer?
13% (51) | My husband works, I am a homemaker | |
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73% (274) | I work, my husband is a homemaker | |
12% (46) | We both work |
371 voters have answered this question.
Should one spouse stay home and raise the children, support the other spouse, and maintain the home?
71% (264) | Yes, it is important | |
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15% (56) | Yes, it is best if one spouse does, but not that importand | |
8% (31) | It doesn't matter, the pros and cons of one person being a homemaker are about equal | |
4% (18) | No both spouses should work |
369 voters have answered this question.
Should the homemaker be the woman
13% (49) | Yes, only women should be homemakers, the man's role in society is to work | |
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32% (118) | It doesn't matter either way. Men and women are both equally suitable for the task | |
54% (201) | No, Men should stay home since they are better suited for housework and women are better suited for work in a modern office |
368 voters have answered this question.
How would you feel if your husband wanted to be a househusband?
75% (279) | I would love it!! I would encourage him to quit his job ASAP. | |
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6% (23) | I would like it, but I wouldn't be thrilled | |
2% (10) | I would be indifferent. If that's what he wants to do, he can. | |
3% (12) | I would rather not, but I wouldn't be too upset about it | |
12% (46) | I would not like it. He needs to be a man and support his family. |
370 voters have answered this question.
If your husband was a househusband, would that make you the head of the household, and his boss?
80% (299) | Yes, the person who works has the authority | |
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11% (41) | No, the man is always the boss in the family | |
8% (30) | No, we would equal |
370 voters have answered this question.
Is it best when one person is the head of the family?
87% (323) | Yes, it resolves conflicts before they start and leads to greater harmony in the family | |
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12% (47) | No, a marriage will only be happy if both spouses are equal |
370 voters have answered this question.
If you would not like your husband to be a househusband, why not?
7% (21) | Social pressure to conform | |
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11% (33) | He has to work for me to respect him, and I have to respect him to love him. | |
10% (31) | He earns more money than I can | |
7% (23) | We are too accustomed to living on two incomes | |
9% (27) | He would not make a good househusband | |
13% (39) | I want to be a housewife | |
5% (16) | His parents would not approve | |
5% (17) | My parents would not approve | |
6% (18) | It is against my religion | |
11% (32) | I don't want the stress of having to provide for the family | |
72% (211) | None of the above. I want him to ba a househusband |
290 voters have answered this question.
How old are you?
4% (16) | Teenager | |
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31% (117) | 20s | |
27% (101) | 30s | |
15% (58) | 40s | |
21% (79) | >40 |
371 voters have answered this question.
What is your marital status?
14% (52) | Never married | |
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82% (306) | Currently married | |
3% (13) | Divorced or widowed |
371 voters have answered this question.
If you would like your husband to be a househusband, why?
62% (225) | I want to have a career | |
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23% (83) | I am not good at, or don't enjoy domestic work | |
39% (143) | It would make me proud to be able to support my family on my own | |
43% (157) | It would be a status symbol | |
49% (176) | The thought of it turns me on | |
13% (47) | My husband's physical strength makes him better suited for housework | |
38% (138) | My ability to multitask makes me better suited for work in an office | |
44% (161) | My competitiveness makes me better able to earn money for the family | |
36% (132) | I am better at communicating, which makes me better suited for work | |
54% (197) | I earn more money than he does or is able to | |
14% (53) | He wants to, and I would do it for him | |
56% (203) | It would give me greater authority over him | |
47% (171) | I would like to prove to the world that women can be leaders in the family | |
11% (41) | None of the above, I don't want a househusband |
359 voters have answered this question.
Maried women only please - In which ways Are You more dominant than your husband
64% (221) | Sexualy | |
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70% (242) | I control the finances | |
76% (261) | I have the final authority in most decisins | |
11% (40) | None of the above |
341 voters have answered this question.
Married women only please - In which ways WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE more dominant than your husband
28% (89) | Sexualy | |
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9% (30) | I would control the finances | |
41% (131) | I would have the final authority in most decisions | |
19% (62) | None of the above |
312 voters have answered this question.
What do you think of men who stay home while their wives work?
9% (33) | They are taking advantage of their wives | |
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55% (200) | It is a legitimate career choice, and I respect them for not giving in to social presure | |
36% (130) | They are weak | |
44% (159) | It is romantic when a man sacrifices his career for his wife |
360 voters have answered this question.
Women who have househusbands only please - check all that are true
66% (200) | I am pleased with my husband's work | |
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6% (20) | I end up doing too much housework when I get home. I wish my husband would accomplish more while I am at work | |
5% (17) | I feel I am being taken advantage of | |
5% (18) | I wish my husband would get a job | |
5% (16) | I would prefer to be a housewife | |
70% (214) | I am proud to have a househusband | |
70% (214) | I prefer my husband staying home |
303 voters have answered this question.
If you have a househusband, whose decision was it
1% (4) | He decided to become a househusband | |
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59% (195) | I decided he should be my househusband | |
24% (81) | We both decided mutually | |
5% (19) | It was not a decision. Circumstances beyond our control made it this way. | |
9% (31) | I do not have a househusband. |
330 voters have answered this question.
Women who have househusbands - Would you please post a message sharing your experiences?
36% (113) | OK | |
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53% (164) | No, I don't want to | |
9% (30) | I don't have a househusband |
307 voters have answered this question.
Which would you prefer...
78% (282) | I am the head of the family. My husband is subserviant to me. | |
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11% (42) | My husband is the head of the family. I am subservient to him. | |
10% (37) | We both have equal status in the family. |
361 voters have answered this question.
Married women only please - Which describes your current situation?
10% (37) | My husband works, I stay home | |
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73% (249) | I work, my husband stays home | |
11% (39) | We both work, but I earn more | |
4% (14) | We both work, but he earns more |
339 voters have answered this question.