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Women crying

I have seen a difference in the reaction on men and women when they cry; I am getting further details and isolating genders for easier readings

Age range:

4% (4) Preteen
43% (38) 13-19
31% (27) 20-29
11% (10) 30-39
4% (4) 40-49
4% (4) 50+

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Country of origin

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When you cry, do you prefer to be alone, or with someone to support and listen to you?

36% (32) I must be completely alone when crying
35% (31) I prefer to be alone, but I feel comfortable with parents or boyfriend/partner are present when I cry
5% (5) I like to have my parents support me when crying
27% (24) I like my boyfriend/partner to hold me and wipe my tears when I cry
6% (6) I'd rather cry in front of strangers, whom I might never see again, than in front of friends
8% (7) I like friends near me when I cry
13% (12) I am not ashamed to cry in public

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When did you last cry?

45% (40) Less than a day ago
22% (20) About a week ago
13% (12) About a month ago
6% (6) Between 1 and 6 months
4% (4) Between 7 and 12 months
5% (5) More than a year ago

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What triggered the tears?

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What did you do when you started to cry?

49% (43) I stood were I was
34% (30) I went to find a place to be alone
11% (10) I ran to the bathroom to hide while crying
4% (4) I searched for someone to hold and comfort me while I cried

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For how long did you cry?

27% (24) Less than 5 minutes
33% (29) Between 5 and 15 minutes
16% (14) Between 16 and 30 minutes
4% (4) Between 31 and 45 minutes
1% (1) Between 46 and 60 minutes
4% (4) More than 1 hour
12% (11) On and off over a recurring period

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How intense did you cry?

3% (3) There was lump in my throat
14% (13) Tears stung my eyes
5% (5) I had very watery eyes, tears about to overflow
36% (32) Tears were coursing down my face
39% (34) I was sobbing and trembling

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What did you do when you felt the tears?

5% (5) I did not shed tears
11% (10) I covered my face to hide tears
17% (15) I directly wiped my eyes to prevent tears from falling
4% (4) I wiped the tears as soon as they started to fall
29% (26) I occasionally wiped the tears that were coursing down my face
31% (27) I allowed tears to streak my cheeks unabashedly and unchecked

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How many people were present?

45% (40) None
34% (30) 1
4% (4) 2
2% (2) 3
5% (5) 4
2% (2) Between 5 and 9
4% (4) More than 10

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Who was present?

14% (13) Mother
6% (6) Father
4% (4) Brother
9% (8) Sister
4% (4) Other family member(Male)
9% (8) Other family member(Female)
20% (18) Boyfriend/Husband
4% (4) Friend(Male)
12% (11) Friend(Female)
9% (8) Stranger(Male)
8% (7) Stranger(Female)
42% (37) Other

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How did you feel when crying?

27% (24) Relief
6% (6) Happiness
3% (3) Satisfaction
1% (1) Delight
6% (6) Touched
60% (53) Sadness
22% (20) Anger
27% (24) Shame
28% (25) Guilt
22% (20) Fear
32% (28) Frustration
25% (22) Stress
9% (8) Impotence
26% (23) Humiliation
13% (12) Other

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How did people react towards you crying?

42% (37) Nobody was present
10% (9) Pretended not to notice
11% (10) Became angry
6% (6) embarrassed for me crying
21% (19) Consoled me verbally
21% (19) Held me/Hugged me while I cried
10% (9) He/She wiped my tears
1% (1) Stopped being nasty
6% (6) Became warmer
9% (8) Other

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How did you feel afterwards?

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On average, how often do you cry?

6% (6) Daily
18% (16) Once a week
25% (22) Once every few weeks
20% (18) Once every few months
4% (4) Once a year
4% (4) Less than once a year
19% (17) Other

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Do you cry openly, or hide your tears?

8% (7) I usually don't shed tears
18% (16) I usually cover my face with my hands to hide tears
16% (14) I usually wipe eyes so no tears fall
13% (12) I usually wipe tears as soon as they start to fall
21% (19) I occasionally wipe the tears streaking my cheeks
21% (19) I usually don't bother to wipe my tears as they make their way down my face freely and unheeded

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How many tears do you shed when you cry?

8% (7) I don't shed tears, wet eyes at most
5% (5) Very watery eyes with perhaps one or two tears
17% (15) A few tears
51% (45) A steady flow of tears
17% (15) Tears burst and overflow my cheeks as soon as I start to cry

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Crying characteristics...

14% (13) I make no sound when I cry
42% (37) I make very little sound, voice a bit shaky
24% (21) I can't speak, breathing in gasps
18% (16) I cry loudly, sobbing and trembling

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Where were you last time you cried?

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This poll was created on 2009-08-30 16:09:36 by Lover of Wisdom
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