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Male crying

I have seen a difference in the reaction on men and women when they cry; I am getting further details and isolating genders for easier readings
Age range
Preteen
13-19
20-29
30-39
40-49
50+
Country of origin
When you cry, do you prefer to be alone, or with someone to support and listen to you?
I never allow myself to cry in front of others
I'd rather be alone, but if close relatives are present I may still cry
I seek my parents to support me when I cry
I like my girlfriend/partner with me to hug me and dry my tears when I cry
I don't mind crying in front of strangers I might never see again
I am comfortable crying in front of my friends
I don't care if people see me crying
When did you last cry?
Less than a day ago
About a week ago
About a month ago
Between 1 and 6 months
Between 7 and 12 months
More than a year ago
What made you cry?
What did you do when you felt that you were about to cry?
I stood in the same place
I went to a lonely place so no one noticed I was crying
I rushed to the bathroom because I was ashamed that people saw me crying
I looked for somebody to comfort me and wipe away my tears
For how long did you cry?
Less than 5 minutes
Between 5 and 15 minutes
Between 16 and 30 minutes
Between 31 and 45 minutes
Between 46 and 60 minutes
More than 1 hour
at intervals for a recurring period of time
How intense was the crying?
Only a lump in my throat(no tears)
Tears stinging my eyes
Blurry vision, bright, watery eyes(tears about to fall)
Tears streaked down my face
Sobbing(making sounds) as tears stained my face
How did you react when you felt the tears?, if any
I didn't shed tears
I covered the face with my hands so no one saw my tears
I directly wiped my eyes so no tears fell
I wiped the tears as soon as they started to fall
I occasionally wiped the tears as they marked their way down my cheeks
I did not bother to wipe my tears as they fell freely and unchecked down my face
How many people were present?
None
1
2
3
4
Between 5 and 9
More than 10
Who was present?
Mother
Father
Brother
Sister
Girlfriend/partner
Other family member(Male)
Other family member(Female)
Friend(Male)
Friend(Female)
Stranger(Male)
Stranger(Female)
Other
How did you feel when crying?
Relief
Happiness
Satisfaction
Delight
Touched
Sadness
Anger
Shame
Guilt
Fear
Frustration
Stress
Impotence
Humiliation
Other
How did people react towards you while you were crying?
Nobody was present
Pretended not to notice
Became angry
Became embarrassed
Consoled me verbally
Held/hugged me
He/she wiped the tears streaking my cheeks
Stopped being nasty
Became kinder/warmer towards me
Other
How did you feel afterwards?
Usually, how often do you cry?
Daily
Once a week
Once a month
Once every few months
Once a year
Less than once a year
When you cry, do you usually hide your tears, or cry openly?
I usually don't shed tears
I usually cover face with hands to hide the tears
I usually wipe my eyes to prevent tears from spilling
I usually wipe the tears as soon as they overflow my eyes
Usually tears spill down my face, which I wipe seldom
I usually let my tears course unabashedly and unheeded down my cheeks
How many tears do you shed when you cry?
I don't shed tears, wet eyes at most
Very watery eyes, with perhaps one or two tears
A few tears
A steady flow of tears
Tears rush unabatedly the instant I start crying
Crying characteristics...
I make no sound when I cry
Very little sound, voice a bit shaky
I can barely speak, breathing in gasps
I cry loud, sobbing and trembling
Where were you last time you cried?
This poll was created on 2009-09-04 19:53:10 by Lover of Wisdom