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A Poll for Lesbians

In the 50s-70s, when lesbian culture was still relatively underground, in order to get a date lesbians generally had to conform to being totally butch or totally femme. That was just the dynamic back then. Nowadays most lesbians fall somewhere in the middle ground, but I'm wondering what people would choose if they had to.
Are you a lesbian?
Yes (continue)
No (skip to results)
If in order to get a date you had to conform completely to the butch persona or the femme persona, which would you choose?
Butch
Femme
Now to add another layer: Back then, it was socially unacceptable for butches to date butches or femmes to date femmes. The only acceptable lesbian relationship was butch/femme. Does this change your response?
No - I would still choose to be butch, and date only femmes
No - I would still choose to be femme, and date only butches
Yes - I would change my mind and be butch because I'd prefer to date femmes
Yes - I would change my mind and be femme because I'd prefer to date butches
This poll was created on 2011-01-27 13:03:32 by rosalitajump