Rav Wish

Rav : Evidently Wishnu has initiated this, what are your thoughts on his action for doing so? Why do you think he has done so? Wish : What are your reasons in doing so? What are you hoping to achieve?

Ten years ago where did you yourself at age 27/28? Are you anywhere close to that? Why do you think so?

What do you think you could have done differently to achieve your "10 year plan"? Do you think with those changes, your 10 year plan is achievable?

What is your version of an ideal relationship/marriage, according to you? Do you know anyone in one (your version of an ideal relationship/marriage)?

Do you feel that you're not in an ideal relationship/marriage? If so, why?

Do you feel it is solely due to the other party's actions? Or is it a joint fault of both parties?

If you're unable to do so, what do you think would happen moving forward?

Are you able to list 10 things the other party has done that has in turn caused you substantial hardship or mental stress?

Are you able to name 10 things the other party has done that has in turned caused you substantial happiness?

Do you feel that the breakdown(s) in your marriage is solely caused by the other party or that is a joint fault of both parties?

Are you able to overlook such breakdown(s)?

If you're unable to do so, what do you think would happen moving forward?

Is divorce an option? Or separation is?

What are your thoughts on divorce? What do you think a divorce would do to you (status,social,10 year plan etc.)?

Have you at any one point communicated your 10 year plan, threshold (your acceptable standard of living), goals, expectations etc. to the other party?

What do you think would solve this dispute? Trashing things out and move on with life as a married couple? Or to file for divorce? Or to separate?

This poll was created on 2012-07-09 13:43:59 by RavWish