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NUDITY AT HOME - COMFORT VS ABUSE 2

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This is not "trolling" or fishing for perversions. I would appreciate if poll takers wouldn't answer in that way. This is a matter of interest to me and am considering doing some actual research and publishing some writings. When it comes to nudity, privacy and modesty in the home there is a fine line between acceptable, comfortable, healthy behavior and inappropriate behavior or even abuse. There is no universally accepted practice, opinions vary widely with each individual. When does something healthy become inappropriate? This is the second poll in a series. Please complete first poll.
At what age should a parent in a "naked house" begin to be conscious of/limiting physical contact with their child of an opposite gender (Hugging, horse play, cuddling, etc)?
5, 6 or 7
8, 9 or 10
Onset of puberty
Never
Unsure
If the parents in a "naked house" are caught by their child/children while they are engaging in a sexual act - how should they handle it? Check all that apply.
Immediately stop, compose themselves
Immediately stop, explain what was happening ("The Talk") if child/children are young enough
Immediately stop, apologize if child/children are old enough to understand what they saw
Do not stop, ask for privacy
Do not stop, explain what is happening
How should a parent in a "naked house" react if their child/children begin exhibiting sexually charged/curious behavior? Check all that apply.
Talk to the child calmly, explain why this behavior is unacceptable
React with anger, scare or scold child
Do nothing, hope they grow out of it
Unsure
How should a parent in a "naked house" react when their child/children invite friends over? Check all that apply.
Explain to them that they are to remain clothed when guests are in the home
Contact parents of guests and explain your situation in the event of a mishap
Warn other parent or any other children that guests are coming over
Do not make and rules for children when they have guests
Do not contact parents of guests
Do not warn other parent or any other children
Unsure
How should a parent in a "naked house" react if they discover their child/children and their guest(s) have gotten nude? Check all that apply.
Not over react, ask everyone to put their clothes back on
Become upset, lecture child for disobeying the rules
Contact parents of guest, explain what happened
Do nothing, allow activity to continue
Talk with child after guest leaves, not allow any more guests until child is older
Unsure
Should a teen/young adult still be as open as it pertains to nudity in their home once they have become sexually active?
Yes - Home is still home, family is still family
Maybe/Unsure
No - Once they have experienced nakedness outside the home and intercourse they will most likely crave privacy.
Is it damaging for a male child to regularly see his mother's naked body?
No - At least not when he's very young
No - He will be more comfortable/knowledgeable of females and "real" women
Yes - The psychological effects are potentially traumatic
Unsure
Is it damaging for a female child to regularly see her father's naked body?
No - At least not when she's very young
No - She will be less afraid of men
Yes - The psychological effects are potentially traumatic
Unsure
Is it damaging for siblings to grow up regulary seeing each other naked? Check all that apply.
Yes - They may make comparisons and develop complexes
Yes - As they develop they will want privacy and not be mature enough to act appropriately
No - It may keep their relationship close
No - There is no inherent danger
Unsure
How should a parent in a "naked house" react when their child/children vocalize that they no longer want to go nude or wish to see their parents nude? Check all that apply.
Have a discussion, try to change their mind
Agree to the request and start covering up
Try to be more aware of when they're home but don't change when its just parents in house
Compromise and agree on set days and times when it will acceptable to be undressed and when it won't
Unsure
This poll was created on 2015-03-02 21:02:37 by deeBees