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Did you ever shoplift ? ( FEMALES ONLY ! )

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Ladies, did you ever shoplift ? I wanted to learn more of what are the primary motivations behind the shoplifting, how often you manige to get away with it, and what are the consequencies when you dont. All of the questions are optional, if none of the options describes exactly what happened in your case, then please select the closest ones or write in your explonation. This poll is not meant to judge your actions in any way, or to teach anyone what is right and what is wrong. I am merely interested in learning about what happened, how and why. Thank you. This poll is for FEMALES ONLY !
-- What part of the world you are from, and what is your etnicity ?
North America
Far east
Middle east
Western Europe
Eastern / south eastern Europe
Russia / former USSR
Africa
Australia
Latin and central America
Other reagons
White
Black
Latina
Asian
Indian
Middle eastern
Arab
Native American
Mixed etnicity
other
-- How many times did you shoplift so far ?
I never actualy shoplifted, but I was wrongly accused of doing so and treted accordingly on at least one occasion ( please continue with the poll if you wish )
I never shoplifted in the normal sense, however I admit i took / stole something from a restourant / night club or a hotel where I stayed ( stuff such as towels, salt shakers, utenciles, books etc. ) ( you can continue with the poll if you wish )
I never shoplifted, but on at least one occasion I left without paying for a service I recived ( paying for meals, carwash servicies, hair styling etc.) ( continue with the poll if you wish )
I admit to shoplifting on at least one occasion
Twice so far
I shoplifted on at least three or four occasions
I am not sure, seems like many times.
-- What kind of items / products did you take, or you were accused of taking ? ( Select as many options as you need if you took different things on different occasions )
Foodstuffs or products used in food preparation
Sweets / crackers / chewing gums etc.
Fruits or vegetables
Juice or soft drinks
Coffee
Alcoholic beveriges
Ciggaretes
Legal over the counter drugs or medicine
Books or magazines
CD's DVD's compiter games
Small electronics ( cell phones, tablet computer, MP 3 players etc )
Computer parts or other small electronics
Toys
Sex toys ( or simular items )
T shirts / jeans / shoes / hats
Normal everyday bra and panties
Laxurios bras and panties or other underwear
Leather wear
Sportswear
Make up / hair brushes / parfumes / shampoos and other cosmetics
Cheap jewelary imitations
Real / expensive jewelary
Expensive watches or other small works of art
Sunglasses
Other items or knick knacks we girls love to have
Products found on hardware or home improvemant stores
Souvenires
Other, please describe
They accused me of shoplifting but never told me what they think I took
-- Where did you shoplift ? ( select as many as you need )
In a small store / corner store close to where I live
In a larger supermarket close to where I live
Supermarket or a store in a different part of the city or in another city
A store mostly specilized in selling alcoholic beveriges
Large all perpose retail store
Shopping mall
Electronics store
High end / expensive store for jewelary or other laxurios goods
Restourant / bakery
Hotel
Outdoor market ( mostly for food fruits or vegetables )
Outdoor market for cheap products or bargoun offers
Other stand alone street vendors
Waterfront or beachfront stores which normally cater to tourists and sell souveniers or simular stuff
Duty Free shops
Other place ( please explain )
-- Did you plan to shoplift in advance ?
No, I did not intend to shoplift, and I didnt , but I still ended up accused of shoplifting
No, I had no intention to shoplift when i went there, but when what looked like a good oportunity presented itself I went for it
No, I havent intended to shoplift, however I came across an item / product which I REALLY wanted, but I was unwilling or unable to pay for it, so i decided to try my luck
No, I havent intended to shoplift, but when some of my friends took some things, I did not want to be the only coward there so I joined in
Yes, when I went to the store I more or less knew in advance I am going to shoplift
Yes infact i already decided what I am going to take
I am not sure, it was a long time ago
I have been in trouble many times and i was used to it, so it wasnt as if I had to plan or not plan to shoplift. I just did when I thought I could get away with it
The surcamstancies were much different and more complicated then any of the options ( you can explain if you wish )
-- What was the primary reason for your decision to shoplift ? (if you had more reasons or different reasons each time, then please select those you consider most important )
Not much of a reason, I was a child and I thought i could get away with it
it was a way for me and my friends to annoy the local shopkeeper and make him yell or chase after us
The reason was I was drunk / or under influence of drugs, and i wasnt thinking clearly
I thought it would be cool or exciting
I see myself as a rabel, and i consider the shoplifting my modest contribution in the fight against the corporations and the kapitalist system as a whole ( or simular )
I never kept anything i shoplifted for me, my motivation was always to give it to those who can never aford it ( or simular )
For some reason I had a sudden urge to take a specific item / product and to get away without paying for it
The store was crowded, and there was just one or two shopkeepers, I thought I could easily put something in my pocket and just walk away
I did not want to look like a coward to my friends, so when some of them began to take things, I joined in
The shoplifting was part of a dare game I played with some of my friends
My dominant / controlling boyfeind made me shoplift on at least one occasion ( or simular )
I really wanted the item, but I was unwilling to pay for it
I really wanted the item, but I was unable to pay for it
I was under the legal age at the time, so the only way to obtain the product I wanted was to shoplift
I had a drug abuse problem at the time, which drove me to do some questionable things including shoplifting
My reasons were much different and more complicated then any of the options ( please explain if you wish )
-- What of the following is true for your case ?
I was never before in the store where I shoplifted
I was a regular or have shopped many times in the store where I later shoplifted
I was there once or twice before I shoplifted
I went in once or twice to get a feel of the place before I went in with the intention to shoplift ( or simular )
I never went back to the place where i shoplifted, even though i was not cought
I never got back to the place where i shoplifted beacouse I was cought and I was to ashamed to show up there again
I have been there at least once or twice after I shoplifted, and I didnt encounter any problems or suspecions
Even though I was cought shoplifting, I dared to go back to the same store and do my shopping there as if nothing has happened
On at least one occasion, I was recognized and I was told to go away and stay away from their store
-- Did you get cought while shoplifting ?
No, I was not cought at all
I shoplifted twice or more times but I was never cought / descovered
I shoplifted more then once, sometimes I was cought, other times I got away with it
I atempted to shoplift more then once and I got cought protty much every time
I shoplifted just once and i got cought right away
I was accused of shoplifting once, even though I never intended or atempted to do so
I was accused of shoplifting twice or more times, even though i never intended or atempted to shoplift
On at least one occasion, I was set up by someone to make it look as if i am shoplifting even though I never intended or atempted to do so
-- If you were cought, please select anything that apples to your case
I was more or less cought in the act
I was cought a bit later while I was still in the store browsing around
The goods I stole were descovered as I was leaving the store
They cought up with me while I was still in the same shopping mall or close to the store
A police officer ( or some other person of authority ), showed up at my home and accused me of shoplifting ( or simular )
I wasnt rally cought, but someone else who knew I had shoplifted told me off to my parents ( or some other authority ) and I had to admit to what I did
My parents figured out later, what I have done
-- If you were cought or accused to shoplifting, please select everything applying to your case
I was confronted by a shop assistant or a security guard, right there in the store where other shoppers could see me
Another shopper noticed what i am doing and raised alarm which brought in the security
I was asked to return the item and to leave the store immidiately
I was quietly / politely asked to follow to the security office ( or another place with more privacy, where the issue can be resolved without making a public show
They roughly told me to follow them to the security office
Though I was cooperative, they physically forced me to follow to the security office or to another more private place
At first they were polite, but after I started to argue and made a scene, they became harsh and more or less physically forced me away
I tried to run away but didnt got far
I made them chase after me for quite some time before I was cought
I maniged to get away but was aprehanded later by the police
I was handcuffed right there in front of everyone, even though I was fullu cooperative, and kept my tone down
I was handcuffed right there in front of everyone, after I started to argue or became agressive or tried to run away
They handcuff me, after they had to chase after me and didnt want to take any chanses
I was handcuffed later in the security office or another more private location
I was only handcuffed when the police showed up and I was arrested
I was indeed handcuffed but the situation was different then any of the options ( explain if you wish )
They used plastic handcuffs ( zip ties )
They used standard metal handcuffs
Some other kind of restraints were used / was restrained in some other way
-- If there was a pat down or search of your perse :
I endured a pat down while I was still in the public area of the store or some other public place
I was pated down later in the security office oe some other more private location
I had a pat down, but later in a police station
I was pated down by a store assistant or a menager
Security guard
Police officer
In my openion the pat down was quick, not very intrusive and relatively professional
In my openion the pat down was relatively intrusive, relatively humiliating, not to professional, but still within resonable / tolerable
The pat down was very humiliating, unprofessional and intrusive, and it was obvios to me the person who is patting me down is more interested to feel my body then to actualy look for something
I stood there calmly, allowing him / her to do their job
I accepted the pat down / suggested that one is performed, to proove I have nothing hidden and that I am wrongly accused ( it helped, I was released )
I accepted the pat down / seuggested that one is performed to proove I have nothing hidden and that i am wrongly accused ( and while they indeed found nothing, I was still kept and had to endure further complications )
I whined and complained a bit about the pat down, but did not ressist in any significant way
I was so embarresed to be cought shoplifting, it never even occured to me to ressist
I argued loudly and made quite a scene
i argued mostly beacouse the pat down was done in public, if they took me to a more private place I was going to be cooperative
I argued demanding that the pat down is done by a female rather then male
I argued beacouse I was wrongly accused, and did not want to be treted like a criminal in public
I wiggled, fought and generally ressisted in any way I could
I didnt have to hold any particular position, I just stood there while the pat down went on
I was told to lean against a wall with my arms and legs spread (or simular position )
I was told to place my hands at the back of my head and spread my legs ( or a simular position )
i was forced down to the floor, face down woth hands at the back of my head and the pat down was done in this position ( or simular )
I was forced down to the floor after I ressisted to much or made it difficult for them
I was already handcuffed when the pat down took place
I was handcuffed to a fixed object when the pat down took place
i had to hold, a much different position or was restrained in some other way then described here when the pat down took place ( please explain if you wish )
They found the item they were looking for in my clothes and took it away
The person who did the pat down detected something deeper into my clothes or on my person, so I was taken away for a more detailed pat down in private or a stripsearch ( or simular )
I indeed stole something and hid it in my clothes / on my person, but the pat down did not reveal it so i was allowed to go away
Though nothing was revealed with the pat down, i was still taken away for a more detailed search or a stripsearch ( or simular)
They found some things with the pat down which BELONGED to me, but for whatever reason decided I stole them so I was treted accordingly
Nothing was found with the pat down beacouse I never took anything
I was told to take my jacket off and / or hand it over for inspection
I was told to open or lift my shirt for a quick visual inspection, I complied without much protest
I was told to open or lift my shirt for a quick visual inspection, I only did so after some arguing or after they provided a more private place ( or simular )
I refused to open my shirt, and they didnt push the issue
They practically had to force me to open my shirt or thretened with legal actions ( or simular )
They had a quick look inside my purse
My purse was emptied and everything was examined
Some of the things I had in my purse were never returned to me
-- If you were coughu, did you have to face any of the following consequencies ?
I was simply asked to return the item, no other consequencies, I wasnt even embarresed that much
Nothing really happened to me but I was extremly embaressed
I was spanked at home after my parents learned what I have done
I was grounded for quite some time at home
I was punished in some other way at home
I was detained in the store, thretaned with legal action or generally intimidated by the security or the maniger
I was stripsearched by the store security (or someone else with authority there)
I was arrested
I spent at least one night in a police jail
Charges were brought against me
I went to coart, but the charges were dropped there or I got off lightly with just a warning
I had to spend some time in a juvenile detention
I went to prison
I had to do community service
I was fined
My parents were fined
The consequencies I faced were different then any of the options ( please explain )
-- If you were stripsearched: ( Note,if you want to give more details about the stripsearch then please have a look at this poll http://www.misterpoll.com/polls/583139 )
I was stripsearched by a male security guard(s) / police officers
I was stripsearched by a female security guards(s) / police officers
I was stripsearched at home by a parent
I had to strip down to my bra (my pants / skirt still on
I had to strip topless
I had to strip to my inderwear
Fully naked
I had a pat down over my bra / panties after i remained in my underwear
The person who stripsearched me put his / her fingers into my bra to check for hidden items
The person who stripsearched me put his / her fingers into my panties to check for hiddem items
The person who stripsearched me, lifted and examined my breasts, I was not allowed to do it myself even though my hands were free
I was handcuffed (or otherwise restrained ) at the time so the person lifted my breasts to look under them
I was told to loosen my hair so they can look into it
The person who stripsearched me loosened my hair
At some point of the search I was handcuffed while still fully or nearly fully naked
I was still in my underwear when I was handcuffed
At some point of the stripsearch I was seated on a chair and handcuffed behind the backrest
At some point of the stripsearch, I was left handcuffed to a fixed object ( ring on the wall, a pipe, bars, chain etc.)
I was restrained to an object as described here (or in a simular way ) but that was before or much later after the stripsearch
At some point of the stripsearch I was told to place my hands on a wall in front of me and to spread my legs, then to remain like this until told otherwise( or simular )
At some point of the stripsearch I was told to place my hands at the back of my head and to have my legs spread ( or simular )
I was given a cavity search
They were thretening / saying, they are going to give me a cavity search, but never went thru with it
I was given an enema
They found what they were looking for in my clothes
They found what they were looking for on my person
There was nothing to be found, I was wrongly accused of the shoplifting
-- If you were cought, did you try to avoid the consequencies, by trying some of the following, or simular " tactics " :
I was so embaresed and shaken, it never occured to me to try anything, I just went along with whatever I was told to do
Smiling and playing a nice timid girl is not my style, when i hit a problem, I tend to argue or be agressive, which is what i did when I was cought
I was very cooperative and apologetic, admiting to what I have done right away , in hopes they are going to go easy on me
I tried to smile and sweet talk my way out of trouble
Basicly I tried to smile and / or lightly flirt my way out of trouble
I openly flirted and / or had a sexualy sugestive body language or rethoric
The idea of flirting, did cross my mind, but i couldnt quite bring myself to do it
I still tried to smile or flirt my way out of trouble even though I was dealing with a female officer / guard / menager etc.
I wasnt intending to be flirty or sexual, until I noticed how the guard is looking at me, and decided to try to use it in my advantige ( or simular )
Knowing how most men soften up when they see us ladies cry, I did my best to cry heavily, promising not to do this ever again and saying how sorry I am
I was crying beacouse I was genuinly embaresed and sorry, I never meant it as an act, luckily for me it did help to avoid suffering more serios consequencies
I think my atempt worked, I was allowed to go or had to face lasser consequencies
I dont think it worked, at least not much
-- Knowing yourself, do you think you are going to shoplift ever again ?
No, I never shoplifted or stole anything before, and i dont intend to do it in the future
No I dont think so, I had this one off crazy moment which I doubt will happen ever again
No, I dont think so, i am not a child any longer and now I know better then to do such stupid things
No, I dont think so, after the humiliation i endured last time it wont occur to me ever again
Probably not, I am not your perfect law obiding citizen, so while i prefer to stay out of trouble I can not be sure i will always manige to do so
Probably not, unless I am in some unusual or extreme situation, where I have to provide the basics for me or for people I love and care for
I like to think, I am not going to do such things ever again, however to be honest, I think if an oportunity presents itself i just might go for it
Yes, I am more or less used to being in trouble, so I think if I think the risk is worth it then I will shoplift again
I do it more for the thrill and excitemant of taking risk and breaking the law rather then for gaining material goods for free, so yes I think I might do it again in the future
I do not consider taking food or clothing to be a crime, especialy not if you use it to help someone in need, that is why I think I am likely to shoplift again despite the consequencies for me ( or simular )
-- How did you come across this poll, and why did you decide to take it ?
i was searching the web for something unrelated, when I found this poll and thought it is relevant to me
I was searching the web for material on this or other related subjects, when I found this poll
I was browsing around MisterPoll when I came across this poll
Someone else found this poll and passed me the link
I found this poll among your other polls
I am not sure why I took it, I guess I just wanted to
I was wrongly accused, so it felth good to be able to tell my side of the story to someone who is willing to listen and who wont pass judgemant on me
I was quite suprised to see a poll on this subject, and since it was relevant to me I thought I had to take it
I just wanted to tell what happens when you broke the law, so other people wont make the same mistake
I just wanted to get it out of myself while still remaining anonymous
I talked about this many times before, so when I found the poll it was natural for me to take it
Lets be honest here, I know you guys are curios, or even think is hot when we ladies get in trouble, so there you have it, you now know what happened to me
I consider taking this poll a form of self punishmant or an extension of my punishmant
I had other reasons not related to any of the options
-- Thank you for your participation, if you wish to describe what happened to you in your own words, or if you have something to add which I didnt ask, then please do so here. You can give as many deatails as you wish, I will be glad to read it all. If you want a conversation on this or related subjects, my email is whipigorus1@yahoo.com feel free to write
This poll was created on 2015-08-26 19:24:49 by whipigorus