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Females Only: Unexpectedly Touched by Others

This poll is for females only and seeks to gather your opinions on being touched by others when it's unexpected or a surprise to you. How comfortable are you with it in various situations? Who do you think should be allowed to touch you? Please answer honestly and thank you for your time.
This poll is for females only. Are you female?
Yes, I am female
Your age?
<13
13-14
15-17
18-19
20-21
22-24
25-27
28-29
30-32
33-35
36-39
40-44
45-49
50+
Where do you currently live?
North America
South America
Asia
Europe
United Kingdom
Australia
Middle East
Other
Your race/ethnicity? Please excuse the simple and limited options.
White
Asian
Black
Latina
Middle Eastern
Native American
Indian
Other
How would you best describe yourself out of the following options? Select all that apply.
Introverted
Shy
Quiet
Innocent
Gentle
Humble
Submissive
Feminine
Traditional
Plain
Average
Nerdy
Quirky
Cool
Stylish
Cute
Hot
Outgoing
Extroverted
Playful
Bold
Daring
Smart
Funny
Dominant
Prideful
Tomboy
Other
Please rate your own physical appearance on a scale of 1-10.
10 - I have a perfect appearance
9 - I am extremely beautiful
8 - I am very beautiful
7 - I am beautiful
6 - I am above average
5 - I am average
4 - I am slightly below average
3 - I am unattractive
2 - I am very unattractive
1 - I am ugly
How do you feel about being unexpectedly touched by others? Please select the option that is the closest match to how you feel.
I always enjoy it
I usually enjoy it
I usually enjoy it if it's somebody I really like
I sometimes enjoy it if it's somebody I like and the circumstances are right for it
I usually don't enjoy it
I almost never enjoy it
I never enjoy it
Should your family members be allowed to unexpectedly touch you? If so, who?
Father
Mother
Older Brother
Younger Brother
Older Sister
Younger Sister
Other
I do not think any family members should be allowed to touch me unexpectedly
If your family members should be allowed to touch you unexpectedly, what kind of touching should be allowed?
Touching my neck
Touching my back
Touching my arms
Touching my chest
Touching my stomach
Touching my bottom
Touching my legs
Touching my feet
Touching/Stroking my hair
Holding my hand
Hugging me
Kissing me
Tickling me
Pinching me
Spanking me
Other
I do not think any family members should be allowed to touch me unexpectedly
Should your friends be allowed to touch you unexpectedly? If so, who?
All friends
Only females
Only males
I do not think my friends should be allowed to touch me unexpectedly
If your friends should be allowed to touch you unexpectedly, what kind of touching should be allowed?
Touching my neck
Touching my back
Touching my arms
Touching my chest
Touching my stomach
Touching my bottom
Touching my legs
Touching my feet
Touching/Stroking my hair
Holding my hand
Hugging me
Kissing me
Tickling me
Pinching me
Spanking me
Other
I do not think my friends should be allowed to touch me unexpectedly
Should strangers be allowed to touch you unexpectedly? If so, who?
All strangers
Men
Women
Boys
Girls
I do not think any strangers should be allowed to touch me unexpectedly
If strangers should be allowed to touch you unexpectedly, what kind of touching should be allowed?
Touching my neck
Touching my back
Touching my arms
Touching my chest
Touching my stomach
Touching my bottom
Touching my legs
Touching my feet
Touching/Stroking my hair
Holding my hand
Hugging me
Kissing me
Tickling me
Pinching me
Spanking me
Other
I do not think any strangers should be allowed to touch me unexpectedly
Under what circumstances should your family members be allowed to touch you unexpectedly? Select all that apply.
When they're being playful or teasing me
When it's to show me genuine affection
When it's to help me or comfort me
When it's just to make them happy
When I specifically ask for it
When I dress in revealing clothes
When I act playful or tease them
When I need to be disciplined or punished
When we're in a certain location (home, beach, pool, etc)
I think they should be allowed to touch me just because I'm female
Other
None of the above
Under what circumstances should your friends be allowed to touch you unexpectedly? Select all that apply.
When they're being playful or teasing me
When it's to show me genuine affection
When it's to help me or comfort me
When it's just to make them happy
When I specifically ask for it
When I dress in revealing clothes
When I act playful or tease them
When I need to be disciplined or punished
When we're in a certain location (home, beach, pool, club, etc)
I think they should be allowed to touch me just because I'm female
Other
None of the above
Under what circumstances should strangers be allowed to touch you unexpectedly? Select all that apply.
When they're being playful or teasing me
When it's to show me genuine affection
When it's to help me or comfort me
When it's just to make them happy
When I specifically ask for it
When I dress in revealing clothes
When I act playful or tease them
When I need to be disciplined or punished
When we're in a certain location (home, beach, pool, club, etc)
I think they should be allowed to touch me just because I'm female
Other
None of the above
Think of the last time a male friend touched you unexpectedly. Where did this occur?
My home
His home
Work
School
Mall
Gym
Restaurant
Beach
Public pool
Private pool
Club
Bar
Hotel
Amusement Park
Bus or bus stop
Airplane
Outside location
Other
I don't remember
Think of the last time a male stranger touched you unexpectedly. Where did this occur?
My home
His home/A different home
Work
School
Mall
Gym
Restaurant
Beach
Public pool
Private pool
Club
Bar
Hotel
Amusement Park
Bus or bus stop
Airplane
Outside location
Other
I don't remember
How did you feel the very last time that you were unexpectedly touched by a male?
Surprised
Happy
Annoyed
Sad
Feminine
Loved
Objectified
Indifferent
Other
I can't remember the last time I was touched unexpectedly by a male
Would you like to be touched unexpectedly more often in the future?
Yes, by my family
Yes, by my friends
Yes, by strangers
No, it happens often enough already
No, it rarely happens now and I want to keep it that way
If you want to be unexpectedly touched more often, how will you make that happen?
By telling others that they can touch me
By touching them first and hoping they do it back to me later
By dressing in revealing clothing
By acting playful and/or teasing others
By acting submissively and hoping that encourages it
By going to certain locations where I think I'm likely to be touched
Other
I don't want to do anything to be touched more often.
Do you think that it should be illegal for a male stranger to touch you unless you give him specific, verbal permission to do so?
It should always be a crime
Most of the time it should be a crime, with a few small exceptions
Sometimes it should be a crime, depending on the circumstances (how?)
It should be legal until I protest, then he must stop
It should be legal as long as it doesn't hurt me, even if I don't like it
It should always be legal for any male to touch me even if I don't like it
How do you feel about being objectified by a male stranger?
It makes me very angry and upset
It bothers me a lot
It annoys and/or offends me
I'm indifferent and I usually ignore it when it happens
I pretend that it bothers me but I actually kind of like it
I'm okay with it because it's normal for males to do that
I'm flattered by it
I enjoy it
I actively encourage it
I support it because I think females should be objectified by males to a certain extent
Other
If you were dared to wear a shirt that reads "Feel Free to Touch" out in public every day for the next week, would you do it?
Yes, that sounds fun!
Yes, although I'd be a bit scared about what could happen
Yes, although I would protest if any guys actually do try to touch me unexpectedly
No, but only because I have a boyfriend/husband; I would do it if I was single
No, that's just too risky for me
No, that seems too undignified and indecent to me
No, that sounds generally unappealing
Would the attractiveness of a male stranger change how you would feel about being unexpectedly touched by him?
Yes, I would be more likely to accept it if he's handsome
It would make no difference to me if he's handsome or average, but I would not like it if an unattractive male touched me
His appearance would make no difference to me at all; I would be okay with him touching me even if I found him unattractive
His appearance would make no difference to me at all; I would not be okay with him touching me even if I found him attractive
Do you have an interesting story about a time when you were touched unexpectedly? Share it here.
You have completed the poll! If you have final thoughts about the subject, you may leave them here. Please also visit the message forum to have a discussion about the topic if you're interested. Have a blessed day.
This poll was created on 2023-01-17 16:54:47 by Mr.Allan