9. How did you discover the affair? (Check all that apply.)
Accidentally.
I purposely sought out discovery.
Unexplained behavior changes in my spouse. (changes in appearance, patterns, etc.)
Material evidence (clothes, lipstick, cards, etc.)
Hearsay evidence (someone told you)
Electronic evidence (computer records, email, etc.)
Financial evidence (bank statements, phone bills, etc.)
Visual evidence (photographs, video tapes, etc.)
Situational evidence (walking in, overhearing a conversation, witnessing the affair, etc.)
Intuition.
Spouse spontaneously confessed.
I hired a private investigator.
Other/not listed here.