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I am 30 years old and just moved in with my in-laws, my 13 year old sister-in-law and mother-in-law says that I need some rules and punishment. What rules and punishments should adult children or kids-in-law have living at home?
First question, my mother-in-law says that as long as I am in her house I must follow her rules and do as I am told. Do you agree with this?
Yes that is the way it should be.
No you are an adult you should be able to do whatever you want.
If you agree that I should have rules, should there be punishments if I break them?
Yes rules are rules if broken punishment follows
No you are an adult
Now for the rules, should I have a curfew?
Yes
No
If I should have a curfew what time should it be
Before 9:00pm
9:00pm
10:00pm
After 10:00pm
Should I have daily chores while living here?
Yes
No
What should my daily chores be?
Keep my room clean
Help set the table and do the dishes after dinner
Take out the trash
Vacuum the floors
Help keep the bathroom clean
Yard work
Other
Should I have a bedtime?
9:00pm
10:00pm
10:30pm
Later
No to old for bedtime
Should I ask for permission from my mother-in-law if I leave the house after I get in from work?
Yes, she is your boss while you are there
No, you are an adult do as you want
Should I have permission before I get anything to eat or drink after dinner?
Yes, they buy the food
No
Should I show complete respect and call my MIL by ma'am while I am living here?
Yes, you should always have respect and not backtalk her
No, there is no need for that
Now for the punishments, if I break a rule should I get punished?
Yes, everytime you break a rule
Yes, but only if rule broken is servere
Yes, why have rule if punishment is not given
No, they should over look it
No, adults should not be punished by parents
Should I be grounded while living here?
Yes
No
What should I be grounded from?
Grounded to my room
television
phone
computer
keys taken away after work
other, please post
How long should I be grounded for?
A few days
One week
Two weeks
One month
Depends on what rule is broken
Should I have cornertime?
Yes at least 30 minutes
Yes at least one hour
No to old for cornertime
Should I be spanked for breaking rules?
Yes, if you live under her roof
Yes, but only after other punishments have been used
Yes, you are to old for breaking rules, it should be done after every rule is broken
Yes, if the circumstances are bad enough
No, you are to old for that
If spanking is done what implements should be used
Hand
Belt
Tree switch
Flyswatter
Wooden paddle
Other
How should the spanking be done?
Over clothes
Pants down and over underware
Bare butt
Please post any comments or ideas for our living arrangements. Thank you for your votes and comments.
I will leave a posted message
No, I will not leave a posted message.
This poll was created on 2007-10-23 17:34:39 by cphillips