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Telling kids what not to do

I am a parent myself and I realise that telling kids what not to do without explaining why often makes them curious about what you're warning them about. I have listed typical things I have heard parents say, or I have seen in advertising campaigns, without any explanation of why. Do you think its a good idea to tell kids not to do things, or is it best left to their common sense? I am very worried that telling kids what not to do will only make them more likely to do whatever you're warning about.
Are you a parent ?
Yes, Father
Yes, Mother
No
Age / Gender of your kid(s) ?
Preteen Boy
Teen Boy
Preteen Girl
Teen Girl
Do you frequently give warnings about safety to your kids ?
Yes
No
In the list below, what are the three most important things you warn your kids about ? (Check three only)
Don't talk to strangers
Don't smoke
Don't drink alcohol
Don't do drugs
Don't sniff glue
Don't take candy from strangers
Don't get into a stranger's car
Don't go into a stranger's house
Don't go with a stranger to help find his lost dog
Don't stay out after dark
Don't play tie-up games
Don't play hanging games
Don't put a plastic bag over your head
Don't play near the rail tracks
Don't play near the river
Don't steal from shops
Don't sit on your own in the park / mall / bus-station
Don't let anyone touch you in a way you don't like
Don't give out your details on-line
Don't let a stranger view your web-cam
Don't do anything a stranger tells you to do on-line
Don't let a stranger take photos of you
Don't wear revealing clothes
Don't play with matches
Don't let a stranger tell you to do things on your web-cam
Don't meet up with a stranger you met on-line
What is your most frequent warning ? (Check one only)
Don't talk to strangers
Don't smoke
Don't drink alcohol
Don't do drugs
Don't sniff glue
Don't take candy from strangers
Don't get into a stranger's car
Don't go into a stranger's house
Don't go with a stranger to help find his lost dog
Don't stay out after dark
Don't play tie-up games
Don't play hanging games
Don't put a plastic bag over your head
Don't play near the rail tracks
Don't play near the river
Don't steal from shops
Don't sit on your own in the park / mall / bus-station
Don't let anyone touch you in a way you don't like
Don't give out your details on-line
Don't let a stranger view your web-cam
Don't do anything a stranger tells you to do on-line
Don't let a stranger take photos of you
Don't wear revealing clothes
Don't play with matches
Don't let a stranger tell you to do things on your web-cam
Don't meet up with a stranger you met on-line
When you give a warning, do you explain in detail what the consequences of not heeding your warning might be ?
Yes
No
If your answer to the last question was 'No', what stopped you explaining the consequences in detail ? Check all the applicable reasons
Laziness
Not enough time
Too embarrassed to explain
Didn't know how to explain
Other
Do you think giving kids warnings is more likely to make them do what you're warning them about ?
Yes
No
This poll was created on 2010-10-25 11:02:23 by junix