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Dominating my boyfriend

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My boyfriend recently confessed to me that he wants to be submissive to me and that he had gone to see a dominatrix before we started dating (we have been together for a year). I have "researched" this on the internet and I am excited by it. I want help with what to buy, what to do and how to start.
What should I do to him?
Slap him?
Be mean to him?
Take his paycheck and give him an allowance?
Make him wear panties?
Gag him?
Make him do chores?
Put him in chastity?
Paddle him?
Icy hot on his penis and balls?
Make him do my bidding?
Tie him up?
Spank him?
Make him kneel in the corner?
Dress up in leather for him?
Use a strap-on on him?
Make him go down on me?
Whip him?
I am going to an adult store. What should I buy?
Hand cuffs?
Cane?
Nothing, use stuff we have around the house?
Leather lingerie for me?
Strap-on?
Panties for him?
Whip?
Humbler (a really cool thing that locks his balls and legs so he has to stay on his hands and knees)?
Chastity device?
Butt Plug?
Paddle?
Gag?
What other stuff should I get?
Apron for him?
Leather gloves for me?
Maid costume for him?
Boots for me?
What should he call me when I dominate him?
Goddess?
My name?
Mistress?
He also told me he has a smoking fetish. I admit I occasionally do smoke....should I smoke for him when I dominate him?
Only if I want to...after all, he is the submissive!
Yes!
No!
Yes, and blow the smoke in his face!
I really like the strap-on idea. But, is this too much? Should I wait on this or go for it?
Go for it! He asked for it!
See how it goes and decide then
Wait and see how he responds to being submissive
No! Never do this!
Should I let him come the first time I dominate him?
Yes, but only if he is really good!
Yes! Of course a happy ending is best!
No!
If I put him in chastity? how long should I make him wait?
A month
Start with a week and build it up to a month (or longer!)
A week
2 weeks
3-4 days
How hard should I spank/whip him?
Make him feel it for at least a day or two after!
Make his butt red!
Leave welts!
Lightly at first
Don't spank him....he is not a child!
When he begs me to stop, give him a few more!
This poll was created on 2014-03-17 06:48:58 by jl90245