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Dominating my boyfriend

My boyfriend recently confessed to me that he wants to be submissive to me and that he had gone to see a dominatrix before we started dating (we have been together for a year). I have "researched" this on the internet and I am excited by it. I want help with what to buy, what to do and how to start.

What should I do to him?

71% (311) Spank him?
49% (215) Gag him?
35% (153) Slap him?
61% (266) Tie him up?
62% (269) Put him in chastity?
34% (149) Icy hot on his penis and balls?
45% (195) Whip him?
57% (248) Paddle him?
31% (136) Dress up in leather for him?
54% (236) Make him wear panties?
54% (235) Make him do chores?
44% (191) Make him do my bidding?
35% (152) Take his paycheck and give him an allowance?
41% (181) Make him kneel in the corner?
72% (315) Use a strap-on on him?
64% (281) Make him go down on me?
24% (106) Be mean to him?

433 voters have answered this question.

I am going to an adult store. What should I buy?

53% (237) Paddle?
34% (154) Cane?
41% (183) Whip?
70% (312) Strap-on?
62% (277) Butt Plug?
46% (205) Panties for him?
57% (254) Hand cuffs?
59% (265) Chastity device?
36% (162) Leather lingerie for me?
50% (224) Gag?
45% (202) Humbler (a really cool thing that locks his balls and legs so he has to stay on his hands and knees)?
5% (23) Nothing, use stuff we have around the house?

442 voters have answered this question.

What other stuff should I get?

40% (150) Apron for him?
59% (224) Maid costume for him?
59% (223) Boots for me?
43% (164) Leather gloves for me?

375 voters have answered this question.

What should he call me when I dominate him?

20% (88) My name?
72% (312) Mistress?
25% (108) Goddess?

428 voters have answered this question.

He also told me he has a smoking fetish. I admit I occasionally do smoke....should I smoke for him when I dominate him?

6% (27) Yes!
23% (98) No!
59% (252) Only if I want to...after all, he is the submissive!
20% (85) Yes, and blow the smoke in his face!

423 voters have answered this question.

I really like the strap-on idea. But, is this too much? Should I wait on this or go for it?

68% (295) Go for it! He asked for it!
15% (65) Wait and see how he responds to being submissive
11% (51) See how it goes and decide then
4% (20) No! Never do this!

431 voters have answered this question.

Should I let him come the first time I dominate him?

47% (209) No!
14% (63) Yes! Of course a happy ending is best!
38% (170) Yes, but only if he is really good!

442 voters have answered this question.

If I put him in chastity? how long should I make him wait?

18% (74) 3-4 days
11% (45) A week
5% (21) 2 weeks
19% (79) A month
45% (183) Start with a week and build it up to a month (or longer!)

402 voters have answered this question.

How hard should I spank/whip him?

13% (60) Lightly at first
24% (107) Make his butt red!
12% (54) Leave welts!
21% (97) Make him feel it for at least a day or two after!
3% (15) Don't spank him....he is not a child!
24% (109) When he begs me to stop, give him a few more!

442 voters have answered this question.

This poll was created on 2014-03-17 06:48:58 by jl90245
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