User: adamkessler2

Some arguments for the would-be spankee:

• You will never have a chance again once you get too old

• If your parent agrees to do it, you will never even remember that it was embarrassing to ask

• No matter how much you’re afraid it will hurt, the pain will be gone in an hour. But you’ll remember the experience for the rest of your life.

• The feelings of guilt or curiosity you have now will not go away on their own. They most definitely will be gone if you get spanked

• If the spanking is truly effective, you will behave better and avoid some other punishments you would have gotten in the future

• Remember, getting punished isn’t the worst-case scenario, not working up the nerve to ask is.

• If you’ve been thinking about it so much you started searching for spanking poll, you know you really need it.

Some arguments for the would-be spanker:

• Your child had an enormous amount of courage to ask a difficult and embarrassing question. Your child had an enormous amount of courage to put their bottom on the line for pain and humiliation.

• This is obviously very important to them

• They have so much trust in you by asking for this

• Even if you think they’re too old for spankings, they don’t.

• They will almost certainly try their best to hold up their end of the bargain by behaving well after getting spanked.

• At some level, they have decided that the guilt or curiosity they feel right now is much worse than the pain and embarrassment they’d feel while getting spanked.

Hi Trudy, thanks for sharing.

What part is scariest? The thought of your mom baring you in front of your friends, or them seeing you get punished and crying?

Does your mom use an implement or just her hand?

It is awkward to bring up the subject of punishment in general.

It is embarrassing to admit you feel like you still need a childish punishment at an older age. You want to feel like you are more grown up than that.

You feel bad you let your parents down with your behavior.

Spankings are very embarrassing. You know that by asking you may get it bare bottomed. Spankings are very painful. You know you will certainly cry from it.

If you were spanked when younger you recall just how bad it was. You remember the pain and humiliation and know it will be just as bad now too.

If not spanked before you are afraid of it being much worse than you imagine.

Despite all that if you still are thinking about asking then you must really deep down know you need a spanking.

Thanks for sharing you story.

I'd have to imagine the hairbrush still hurt plenty even with a thin layer of nylon? Was it just the embarrassment of having your panties pulled down you thought was missing?

How did the conversation about pants vs dress come about - like did she say that right after or did you ask her a long time later?

When I was in middle school, there was a very pretty girl I had a huge crush on. One day, towards the end of the semester, she wore a mid-thigh level skirt of loose, flowing fabric. It was really memorable because she never worse skirts or dresses.

As a teenage boy at the time, I'm sure it surprises no one that I spent every chance I had that day taking a look at her beautiful legs. It's not that she was a prude or dressed overly conservative; she did wear shorts and tight jeans all the time. It's just that a skirt was so noteworthy because I had always noticed she never wore one, yet always wished she would.

At recess that day, she decided to play four square -- which she also never did. She wasn't a tom-boy at all, and we rarely had girls play. Now for people not familiar with four square, the object is to keep getting people in the square ahead out until you reach the serving square. As she was a pretty girl amongst a bunch of boys, no one played hard against her and she made it to the server.

I was in the #2 square at the time. On one serve, the motion of her arm flipped up the front of her skirt. I'll never, ever forget the pink panties she was wearing. But it didn't flip just momentarily. It got caught in the breeze and the whole skirt, front and back was blown up for several seconds. She was flailing her arms around trying to get it under control. It looked like when someone gets an umbrella blown inside-out and struggles to invert it. I got a nice lengthy look and was beyond overjoyed -- taking in her lovely thighs, the shape of her hips, and of course her pretty pink panties. And I never stopped being obsessed with getting to look up girls' skirts ever since.

I have no idea what got into her that day to both wear a skirt she never wore before, and play a playground game she never played before either. I thank my lucky stars she did though, and that I was there to see it.