User: debbie

Well Scott maybe, but I think it's still out of order and totally disgusting. I got smacked again just a few days ago for "my attitude" and with all the squirmimng I did on his lap he must have seen EVERYTHING between my legs. Six year olds don't think about what they have between their legs as to do with sex, 17 year old's do and that should be private!!!

========== In Reply To ========== When you live in someone else's house, rather your parents, or relatives, you have to live by their rules. Even if that means a bare spanking. In this case your Uncle spanked you for disobeying the rules and since you are under 18 he also had your parent permission. The spanking worked because you now obey the rules (showing respect.) Hopefully you will learn from this experience and use it in future relationships with others. Don;t be made at your Uncle, he is just trying to teach you a valuable lesson.

I recently turned 17 and am living with my uncle and aunt because my parents have gone to work in Germany and want me to finish my education here in the UK.

I was smacked as a child and my parents gave instructions to my uncle and aunt to continue smacking me if I misbehave because they know I hate it so think it's a very effective way of disciplining me. My uncle already smacks my younger cousins and recently he took my parents' request (because he said I was continually being disobedient), put me across his knee and smacked me with my panties off until I was crying hard. My bottom was very red and sore afterwards and I felt incredibly embarrassed having my female privacy taken away.

I hated him for it but because I don't want it to happen EVER again, I behave exactly the way they want now. Was he wrong to do that to me at my age, please tell me?

Something I'm just thinking, reading these messages and especially some on the board for people who were/ are spanked between the ages of 11-16 is that kids are spanked for not having self control, yet in a lot of cases, the parents have less self control.

In the message (on the other poll board) about a teenage girl (15) whose mother spanked her bare bottom in a grocery store for swearing at her 12 year old brother makes me think that the mother is a lot less in control of her behaviour than the daughter was. Perhaps the mother was giving in to frustration and PMS, yet the daughter is not allowed to give in to these emotions to do far less violent things than spank. It seems absurd. It's saying that adults can hit because they're big and they have more power and rights. It doesn't seem like very good parenting to me. It seems like an excuse for adults to take out frustration by hitting. I'm not saying that it's ok for the girl to swear at her brother, just that spanking her is wrong. Maybe she should have been asked to apologize to her brother, not be spanked by an out of control woman in a public place. That seems crazy to me.

========== In Reply To ========== Firstly, thank you Lee! Everyone who has read the messages here will know who I am. To Wesley-I can assure you it's no fun for me, at 16, having my bare behind spanked by my father! Are you so naive to think that teenagers never get spanked and some, like me, on the bare behind?

I don't know if your comments were partly directed at me but, although my dad only hits me with his hand, he spanks me very, very hard, each smack goes right through me and I'm in tears long before he's finished punishing me.

I don' find it funny when anyone here mocks or says they don't believe what I go through. My parents are decent people, they're not breaking the law in the country we live in when they punish me and I know I deserve a lot of what I get. They are very strict with me in some areas but very suppotive in many ways too. What I hate, as I've said before, is the manner in which they go about punishing me-they treat me like a little child when they spank me-often in front of my brother and sister, I have my panties pulled down, have to tell the family why I deserve to be punished, then bend over my daddy's knee and am thoroughly smacked until he and my mum feel I've learned my lesson. I'm 16, not 8, but I don't think anybody should have to go through that!

Like most, if not all teenagers, I constantly test how far my parents will let me go before I get into trouble. They made it clear they don't want me discussing private family matters here, but I feel it's my right, free speech and all. If I get caught I'll get my behind tanned severely, but it's a risk I'm prepared to take.

There is no doubt a lot of rubbish and I suspect fantasy on these pages, it's all been said before. It shouldn't be all that hard to work out which are likely to be real and which are nonsense. I originally came here looking hopefully for a little sympathy and to find out if many other girls of my age get the same. What happens to me isn't funny but I can assure you it's very real for me!!!

Debbie

========== In Reply To ========== John, I don't know what you're getting at. If you read my messages far enough back, at the end of term, a few days before Christmas you will read how I got a really hard spanking from my dad for being out really late with my boyfriend and in particular for drinking. I was also grounded at the time and not allowed to watch TV or use the phone or computer.

Because I was getting bored I wrote a message or two here to see what peoples' reactions would be to the severity of how I get punished by my parents.

I guess I was hoping for some sympathy here because I hate being spanked at my age. A couple of days later mum caught me using the computer and read the messages I'd written here. She was really angry and you'll no doubt have read her message saying that I wasn't to write here any more-she doesn't want me discussing private family matters in public (here). After writing her message we went to my bedroom and she warmed up my bottom with a slipper, although that wasn't as bad as dad's spankings-they're much much harder and nearly always make me cry. So that's only two spankings in the last few weeks!

I'm not grounded anymore so I can use the computer now. Ok, yes I'm being disobedient in that I'm back here with my own poll on spanking, but as long as mum doesn't find out I'm fine. If she does, my dad will no doubt thrash the living daylights out of me, but they're not going to find out because you're not going to tell them and I have a point to prove with my poll, that baring a teenage girl's bottom and spanking her to beyond the point of crying is not on!!! I am fairly headstrong, if that is the right word, and I don't see why I should behave like an obedient puppy! Give me a break, my parents don't own me-I just want a life I can call my own! I'm sure other teenagers here will agree with me on that and you should get off my back!!!