User: jonathan

I'm 15. I get it with a paddle about 20" long made of real hard plastic and with about a dozen and a half holes in it, and after about 8 - 10 swats the burn gets so bad that you start crying real hard!! You just can't help it.

What's an example of a rule like that? A lot of teens may THINK a rule is arbitrary or unreasonable, but in all likelihood, the parents have a very good reason for setting it.

Jonathan

========== In Reply To ========== What happens when you have a well-behaved teen, who knows right from wrong and is smart enought to develop their own opinions and values? Should they have to live up to their parents insane, unreasonable standards? What if the parents set extreme, age innaproprite limits, and the teenager, who has no intention of using drugs, drinking, sleeping around, skipping school, committing crimes or anything most normal parents condemn, breaks an UNREASONABLE and ARBITRARY rule? It grates my nerves to see people assuming the teen always deserves it. Sometimes the parents need punishing!

Jenny Your e-mail address didn't work but this is what I said "I got your e-mail address from misterpoll.com... one of the talk about it sections. I agree with you (not alot of guys would) but love is not associated with sex much at all. I say, any girl who is rushing me to have sex with her needs to be dumped. The thing about girls is that they can get pregnant and try to collect child support. Most cases win for the women. And the profession I'm gonna be the child support would be damn near $10,000 or MORE a year. But, that's not the point, if she loves me for me, and not just my body, then she can wait until I marry her for sex. I'm 16 years old and still a virgin (which is good...don't care what people say) and I plan on giving my virginity to someone close to my heart. And she would have to prove she loves me too. Yes, sex should wait until marriage."

========== In Reply To ========== i think all the people who said they would sleep with there girlfriend before they get married should get shot.

if any one wants to say anything about it write to my e_mail address

yep, that's right. I am all them things.. Add intellectual and I'm in. But too bad I'm taken =P

========== In Reply To ========== He also need a good personality and we have to click.

If I was there I woulda caugt my peak and been a gentleman and helped you cover up. Because I know not many guys are as chivalrous as I. Besides... Who knows, for my good deed I might have got more of a peak afterwards... ;) lol, j/k. But, I woulda even tried to find the top for ya. And this reminds me of last summer...I think, or 2 summers ago. There's this girl in Indianna (I'm in Illinois and I met her out camping) who has a major crush on me and when I was there I would bother her by pulling the strap of her bikini so it would untie. I'm such a lil >=) But this was while playing basketball.. This made her worry about her top while I won :D Does anyone else have a story like that?

========== In Reply To ========== Mat, Mmmmm. You must be wishing you were there. I was wearing a strapless top (go ahead call me stupid!). I knew immediately it was gone after a wipe out. I tried to find it for about 5 minutes, but I'm sure the undertow pulled it down and out to sea. Maybe 20 people saw me with my board against my chest, but I didn't give a topless show. I got a few applauses though. A couple of other girls held up towels as I put on a sport top (which I should have worn in the first place). I was 26 at the time.