User: lagochapala2008

Hi Graham,

Would prefer neither. The closest I ever came to getting swats at school on my bare butt was a warning that next time, and there was NO next time, my parents would be called for permission to take my jeans down and get it on my shorts. I find the idea of ruler swatting the inner thigh wrong too.

Yep, dad used a belt and it was bare butt when he thought my behavior or attitude required a whipping. This was age 13-17 and no real damage cause dad was not mean or abusive in any way but my bottom sure was sore, even at the one at 17. Did I deserve them?...probably I did. I am successful now cause I was raised well by my parents.

Joe

Graham,

No, the jeans were heavy enough denim in the seat to not break skin but having to remove everything in my back pockets left nothing but that layer of jeans and my boxer shorts between the paddle wood & my bottom. I had never been paddled at school before so only knew what other guys had told me and though I expected it would hurt, he walloped me pretty good and it gave me a painful butt that was red when I checked it out in the bathroom mirror. So no skin broken or bleeding.

I agree with what was said about humiliation not to be a part of punishment. I was embarrassed enough to get my butt spanked at school and if your school was any similar to mine, the word spread among other guys when someone got the paddle and so there was that part too that embarrassed some.

I saw another message in which you say getting caned on the bottom would be better or enough punishment rather than ruler on the leg thighs. Were you caned ever across the seat of your trousers or worse with your trousers down? I figure a cane could break skin.

Joe

Billy, I agree with much of what you said except for...attitude is something you can't do a lot about. No one but you Billy have control of your attitude and I say this from experience at a similar age. My dad challenged my attitude several times knowing that I knew better than the way I was acting or things I was saying. I imagine you do too Billy and especially when you say...I think maybe I'd had it coming for some time.

My parents were tough with me when it came to showing respect and now looking back I really appreciate that. There was an argument I had with my mom when I was 14 and upset, I was using my arms as well as my mouth. Mom finally had enough and grounded me to my room to await my dad getting home. Mom thought I threatened her with my hand/arm and that was all my dad needed to know to get me a bare bottom whipping.

Bet that is all your mom & dad are asking of you is to try harder to stay out of trouble and you know you can or you'll find those boxers coming down again.

Joe

I may have gotten the seat of my pants hand swatted out in public for misbehaving but if I earned a spanking, I got that when I got home.

I think there is a difference between spanking and abuse and while I oppose 100% abuse of a child or anyone, be it physical, verbal or emotional, I do understand a need to spank a child sometimes.

Joe

Hi Graham & Jordan,

Yes Graham, I think it is wrong to paddle in school on your bare bottom or bare legs. I got paddled in 9th grade but it was on the seat of my jeans and even that hurt enough to teach me not to ever cheat at school again and when my friends and I checked our bottoms in the bathroom, they were red & sore. My dad did give me bare butt paddlings and whipping with his belt but it was at home and just him & me in my room.

Jordan, if you are a teen already then your aunt should not spank your bare bottom but rather just have you lower jeans or trousers and get it on undies and as one who got spanked on my skivvies, that can hurt as bad as bare bottom or a paddling like I got at school in jeans. If you need one bare bottom then it should be your uncle, an older brother or dad or a man. Did you ever come close to getting your butt paddled at school or probably should have for something you did? The time you got the ruler smack on your hand, would you have preferred the smack on your bottom rather than your hand?

Joe