User: philrodg

@Adrian00 Thank you so much for sharing your story. You wrote that you felt helpless getting tied up like that, however, it made you realize that your parents are in charge and you had to rely on them for comfort. This is why using restraints is so efficient. Especially combined with wearing diapers 24/7. It gave you a very special bonding to your parents.

On the other hand, there will probably have been times that were not easy. Your hands had been useless in mittens most of the time and you weren't able to speak for hours with the pacifier gag. What was the hardest time, how did you react and did you argue? How did your parents explained you why you have to be restrained to bed or wearing mittens during daytime?

@Adrian00 You are right. You punishment/discipline seems unconventional. However, it has been given with lot of love and this is why you were able to accept it in a great way. Congratulations.

What kind of diapers did you used. Did you used different for school days or at home or always the same kind? And how often did your mother check the diaper and was this only visual or different?

You wrote you had a addition of a strap restraint that kept your hands at the side. have your hands always been restrained this way when you have been at home? And has there been other straps / restraints during daytime than only the back zipped pjs, pacifer gag and mittens?

thank you so much for writing more about the restraining routine at night when you have been strapped into your bed restraints. that was very interesting. how did you feel when you had to lie there and one hand after the other was fixed by your mother so you got into a complete immobile state for the next hours.

@Adrian00 Great to read that your parents did not treat you badly or abused you. putting a boy in the age you were into restraints means that parents care for their child. taking over control over the movements of a child means taking over the responsibility. giving you the confidence you are a good boy why your mother is putting you into your restraints was the best she could do. you wrote you have been nervous and afraid when you were put in them for the first time. what kind of restraints was the ones you have been introduced first? and what came later? It's very interesting to see how you can rise the treatment slowly, this for I'm asking for these details. After all restraints have been introduced to you, what was your daily routine? you wrote us about your bedtime-routine and this was helpful. What about the morning, during car rides or at home during daytime? And one more question: you wrote us, that your restraints on your bed were the worse and you couldn't move much. Could you write us how exactly you have been restrained to bed? Which kind of straps and what was the routine (which straps first?). This might be interesting for parents looking for restraints for the first time.

@Adrian00, that sounds very interesting. Great, your parents introduced you slowly to every new step of restraints. How did they explained why they are used? I think the way your parents acted would be interesting for other parents. This for, could you explain every single step and how they introduced and explained it to you?

@adrian00: That's interesting. How did your parents introduced you to new restraints and routines without risking you to freak out? Can you give us an example? I think you acted very brave, especially because you wrote that you have been the only boy in the family in diaper punishment and restraints. Did your parents explained you once, why it was only you for this punishment? And how was it to be in diapers and restraints while your brother was growing up without?