User: dirtgirl

FWIW I don't use sandpaper because I'm not sure of the risks of long-term damage having not been on the receiving end of it in my own childhood. (Plus in our family we're more preoccupied with the misbehavior/autointoxication/constipation cycle and the importance of emptying the $%!@-tunnel through aggressive $%!@ stimulation. Though we have used $%!@-spanking with implements - rulers, wooden spoons etc).

Peeperdeeper, nothing larger than a finger can be inserted up the smellhole without lubricant...unless you actually want to cause a serious injury. Amelie's punishment is most useful and effective if she knows how to mechanically stimulate the rectum, i.e literally $%!@ the $%!@ out of her sister.

Anyone in a domestic situation like Amelie, or myself, will want to refer to my members-only polls (see my profile) and also to https://www.misterpoll.com/forums/264074

I used to oppose spanking of teenagers, but now I realise there are unusual circumstanced in which it may be appropriate and useful.

It has to be spanking with a paddle or hairbrush.

And I still think spanking should be immediately followed by administration of enema or a bisacodyl suppository (mainly because it tackles the constipation/autointoxication/misbehavior cycle, but also because of the forced-$%!@-penetration-as-punishment aspect).

Slightly O/T reply if Lewdy is still around:

Implements used for $%!@-spanking: Ruler / Wooden spoon / Rubber spatula / Flyswatter (I call it a "twix" - it's "the longer lasting smack" !) / Hard spatula from kitchen

But yours is just a baby - still, in the first 18 months of her life you may have need to start the "punishment" I usually carry on about online, which is the use of (invaribaly nonconsentual, painful) $%!@ penetration. Simultaneously as a threat, a violation, and to cause a bowel evacuation. Because children, even babies and toddlers, who act up persistently tend to be constipated - in the sense of "not emptying their bowels completely, not doing enough $%!@, not managing to do a stinky one to three times daily" - it is legitimate to follow up any spanking with insertion of a suppository (push it in deep so they can't "do" it out before it's melted!). Or with a mini- or normal enema (depending on the kid's age). Or even with the use of mechanical rectal stimulation with a handheld tool of suitable size. Making it clear that you know - and welcome the fact that - the $%!@ penetration hurts and is frightening. It's a parental prerogative - seizing any number of excuses/opportunities to make your child cry and "do"