User: sandi_gymnast

First of all, I can't speak for anyone but myself but my advice is anything that involves removing any clothing for the guy or the girl is probably not what a girl wants to hear to make her more comfortable wrestling a guy. Obviously, if the guy and girl are already in a relationship, that changes everything but I would not recommend suggesting that to a stranger or someone you only casually know. I personally would not want any unfair advantage. I only want to win the match if I am better. To win knowing that I had an unfair advantage would not excite me. However, it is still a blast to me if I can give the bigger/older guy a tough match even if he still wins. I will still feel better about a tough loss than a win when I have been given an advantage. The only semi-acceptable option for me is if we both go for a run or something else physically demanding before our wrestling match. The fact that we have both done the same activity still makes it feel mostly fair to me but my high level of conditioning does give me a big advantage over most guys, especially average guys. I am still relatively fresh in the wrestling match while my opponent is already breathing hard and somewhat exhausted before we even start. That is definitely somewhat of an unfair advantage for me but if it is really a competition to see who is physically superior, then it seems mostly fair to me. Of course, the thrill is even greater for me without that advantage but it still feels good to show him my body is better than his with the advantage. I hope that makes sense.

Now with all that said, some of your suggestions do sound like a lot of fun but only if you and the guy already have a relationship and you are very comfortable with him. Of course, once again, I would want for the same rules to apply to both of us. :-)

I don't want to give out my email on here but I'm a teen gymnast who has beat a couple of adult guys. This poll is old so not sure if you're even still around but you could ask me any questions here if you want and I might email you if you seem okay.

How is anyone expected to answer if they don't know anything about you? I answered yes because I an a confident, $%!@y, little bitch but if your twice my size and stronger than most guys I would probably have answered differently. LOL

There are some guys that are submissive though and they are easy to identify about 10 seconds into a match. I think it is a lot more common for girls to be submissive and enjoy their boyfriend to physically control them but it also happens in some guys but yes, if you "let" an aggressive girl get you in a submission hold, you will probably regret it a few seconds later when the pain or lack of air starts to cause panic. There is nothing wrong with being a submissive guy....didn't intend to sound like I was putting that down.....I just prefer to face opponents, male or female who are going to genuinely try to beat me. If they do, I will congratulate them and then work twice as hard to make sure I have a better showing next time or if I win, I try to do it gracefully also especially if it is in front of others. If it is a private match though, there is nothing wrong with a little humiliation and trash talk. LOL I do have trouble controlling my emotions after winning a tough, hard earned win on the mats.

I don't mean to be judgmental and what happens between you and your wife is your business but just from a different perspective, I don't like submissive guys. I love it when a guy is all macho and thinks just because he has something hanging between his legs, that means he can beat any girl. I love pinning a guy down or making him submit but I only enjoy it if he is really fighting back. It isn't fun for me if the guy just rolls over and lets me pin him or submit him. I don't win all my matches but when I do, it is such an emotional rush and a high that is unmatched by anything else I've ever done. It's quite a sense of accomplishment if I win fair and square but boring if he "let's" me win. Of course, a few guys have claimed to "let" me win but we both know better. LOL