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Dear Lizzie Sorry for the long delay - been off line for a while. I did buy my wife a crochet top with a very open weave allowing her nipples to poke straight through which she now wears when we go clubbing.She was apprehensive at first but a lot of the girls were wearing barely there outfits so she didn't feel out of place. She doesn't usually wear a bra because she doesn't need the support and of course i prefer her without,her nipples are very dark,so she's usedto them showing through blouses or even a white jumper if the lighting is right but i don't find it as exciting as having her topless. Hopefully the mesh top will give her that bit more confidence and perhaps at some point she will realise she doesn't need it.She says she will go topless this summer at the coast ,but she did say that last year. Do you find you get more of a reaction when you wear the string bottoms,i think they are definetly more appropriate? How did your party go ? Hope the cold weather didn't spoil things. Looking forward to your reply.

Dear Lizzie Good to hear from you again. It's not really a problem going topless on the beach,i think she feels safe,or even walking to the kiosk on the prom,but any further than that and she seems to think some body might say something.I do find this frustrating because she looks great without a top and my 14 year old niece never wears one on holiday. I'm sure it is a confidence thing as you say,i'm thinking about buying her some mesh tops so that she can get used to showing her nipples in public without actually being topless. It's great that you won the wet t shirt contest-what a confidence boost,not that you need it.What kind of contest was it? They seem to of evolved a bit over the years,the shirts often don't stay on very long and sometimes it seems to be a case of the girl that takes the most off winning,not that some of the girls have much to take off. Did your friend with the pool have another party in the end? Sounds like things are going well at the swimming club too!Have any of the other members commented on your "costume" i bet there were a few double takes the first time you were topless,i'm sure some of the men couldn't hide there excitement.Any problems with the string bottoms staying in place?

Dear Lizzie Sorry for not replying sooner,such a busy time of year.Hopefully some of the other girls at your swimming club will find the courage to join you topless,your friend must be feeling over dressed in her one piece. My wife's problem is that she doesn't feel comfortable being the only girl topless away from the beach,this has been a problem the last couple of summers and i feel the only answer is not to take the top, so that she gets used to being topless all day regardless of what other girls are wearing. Have you had any more adventures?

Dear Lizzie Tkanks for your reply,i'm pleased things went well for you.It's important that young ladies like yourself go topless as much as possible to set a good positive example for future generations.I remember a few of the more daring girls going topless in the 1980's,but it didn't really catch on away from the beach,i can't believe that so many girls still feel the need to hide their breasts away 20 years later. My wife is only 25 and looks great without a top but will only go topless away from the beach if other girls are.We take quite a lot of day trips to the coast during the summer and i've so far tried in vain to persuade her to leave her top in the car and spend the whole day topless-Any ideas? Keep up the good work.

Dear Lizzie I'm interested to know how you got on at your swimming club,hopefully no news is good news.I've been following this thread for sometime,as i'm trying to encourage my wife to be a bit more daring,but i don't think she will ever be as daring as you or the other girls here. Hope you have time to reply.