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Posted in Choose my pjs on 2015-11-07 19:01:39

Hmm, it was a bit hard to answer your poll truthfully: since I'm a fan of one-piece pajama's and also like back-zip ones, but this is not about what I like. And from the standpoint of a parent I wasn't quite sure yet if you would not interfere again with your protection if you had the opportunity; I hadn't heard from you for a number of months, so I can't judge how 'responsible' you have been, and although I get the impression you are more mature and better able to see your parent's viewpoint than when you started this thread, I didn't deviate too much from your normal rules, though I think on a holiday a few things should be more relaxed.

About the underdeveloped bladder, did your doctor ever say whether you should be able to train it or not? If you think (s)he thinks you just don't have the control, you might ask him/her about it a next time while one of your parents is present - perhaps they'll accept the professional opinion.

I think a zipper tab is an excellent idea, and should hide both the fairly conspicuous pull and the keyhole.

If you could freely choose a onesie from any webshop - which ones would you go for?

Posted in Choose my pjs on 2015-11-01 12:42:00

You could say that in one aspect your parents did you a favor by making all your PJs back zip: once there is no choice it sometimes is easier to accept bad things and get on with your life. Were all of the new ones from the same company as your hello kitty ones (in-petto)? Since they were angry since you, I expect they didn't go through the trouble of having them custom made with nice designs, and just got you the uni-colored ones?

LOL - a back-zip pajama party. Did she ever explain why she has those back-zippered footies? They seem to be fairly uncommon, so perhaps her parents had a purpose in getting those too. Perhaps she is wearing protection at night as well? (But I guess you might not be tat enthusiastic about bringing it up, since then you might need to explain your arrangements as well.) Sorry to hear about Nick, but I'm sure there will be a new crush before long ;-)

It sounds like music camp has made you come a long way in accepting your PJs; even though it must have been hard to go at first, you have learned that you had a good time all the same, and that even though people will have noticed you pajamas, that didn't immediately turn you into an outcast. And even that some other people can accept the diapers, like your roommate. By the way, I wasn't aware you made a new poll, so no answers from me there (and I guess you don't need new answers anymore :-O) Again the results will not have been what you'd prefer, but that just seems the way that people respond on this site - always picking the harshest choices. I'm not sure if you can draw any conclusions from them.

What I don't understand is why your parents keep trying to give rewards if you stay dry for a number of days. From what you've told me until now, you just don't have the control to make that happen, so they might as well let you roll a die a few times and reward you if you had rolled only sixes. But you do have control before you go to sleep, so perhaps you could be more consistent in not using the protection in the evenings, and ask to be let out every time. (And of course the more hassle for them in handling this, the more chance they might decide sooner to make things a bit easier for both sides.)

About the locking zipper pulls: you can see one in the image I added on page 6 of this topic (with the babyish sleeper). It is a pretty large pull, just over 1 inch long in total. There is a small keyhole in there, a few millimeters long, that will probably only be recognizable if you look closely. So worst case scenario: if e.g. someone is talking to you, their attention might be drawn to the large pull, and then spot the tiny keyhole. But more often people aren't that perceptive, and even if they see a small hole in the zipper pull, most would probably don't immediately think that it is a locking zipper, since the vast majority won't even know those exist. (Perversely you'd have way less chance of people spotting it if it was on a back zipper, but of course the whole point of it is to be allowed front zippers again.)

Posted in Choose my pjs on 2015-10-31 07:20:18

Hi, yes, it would be great to get an update on your situation. Apparently you survived the summer in back zip pajamas ;-)

Hi Christina, thanks for contributing your fun story. Have you or Katie also wet yourself because you wore something you needed help with getting off, and no one was around, or they didn't help you?

Hey Suit 'n' Tied, I happened upon a guy who is into extremely high collars, and found a different way of 'locking' them on. I thought you might find it interesting: http://www.hogtie.dk/collar/index.html